"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Myspace, Facebook, ect... What's the deal?

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I just found out that on facebook(and I am sure it's on myspace) that you can post events and parties and what not.

My idea was to check the events and see what bars the people would be hitting up. I would then go to said bar and well you know how b-day girls/party's can get.

I think it's an ok idea, but my housemate (who's an afc) doesn't agree for reason's that just don't add up. What do you all think of using these sites like yellowpages-getting-laid-edition?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I don't know about you man but if I go to a bar I don't it as an event on myspace.
 

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"I don't know about you man but if I go to a bar I don't it as an event on myspace."

I don't understand that sentence.

People are listing their parties and saying what bars they are going to hit up.
 

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Not a bad idea I must say. While you're at it, you might as well creep the pages of the girls that are going, you can get an idea of which ones are single...check out their pics to get a read on whether you think they might be interested in you.

Of course at the same time I find this idea somewhat creepy, and I think a lot of people share the same sentiments.
 

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Sounds like to much research to me. If you already know the woman why don't you setup something one on one? If you don't know them, then just go straight to a bar and find some other random?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bman

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i think thats called stalking. just go to any bar, theres always chicks there.
 

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Nothing wrong with it. Just don't let other people know you're doing it.

And yes, check out which ones are "single" to help you maximize your time and efforts.
 

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bman said:
i think thats called stalking. just go to any bar, theres always chicks there.
No, stalking is when you follow them from one place to another. If you go to a yoga class to meet women, you are not stalking them.

green69 said:
Not a bad idea I must say. While you're at it, you might as well creep the pages of the girls that are going, you can get an idea of which ones are single...check out their pics to get a read on whether you think they might be interested in you.

Of course at the same time I find this idea somewhat creepy, and I think a lot of people share the same sentiments.

I can understand why you might think this as a creepy idea, but some women would think the same thing about a guy that visits sites that give advice on how to pick up women.

These girls are posting it on the internet in an open website that allows anyone to see the details. It's safe to assume they don't want a private party.
 

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SharinganUser said:
I can understand why you might think this as a creepy idea, but some women would think the same thing about a guy that visits sites that give advice on how to pick up women.
Don't ever tell anyone about this site, except maybe your best bud, and take it to the grave with you.
In fact i think girls think any guy that wants to get some is creepy, unless he's hot of course which shows higher value, but otherwise that's why we have to play these stupid games.
It's all about who has the power and boy do i know i'm kidding myself when i act like i don't want it... but amazingly it works.

Oh yeah and i do the whole myspace thing. It's great if you have a lot of ass chasing you, but not so great when you start out.
 

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SharinganUser said:
I just found out that on facebook(and I am sure it's on myspace) that you can post events and parties and what not.

My idea was to check the events and see what bars the people would be hitting up. I would then go to said bar and well you know how b-day girls/party's can get.

I think it's an ok idea, but my housemate (who's an afc) doesn't agree for reason's that just don't add up. What do you all think of using these sites like yellowpages-getting-laid-edition?
i don't ask for advice from AFC's.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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**** dude that's standard fair at my college.

Of course, everyone at my college knows everyone else there. So things like who's single and who's not are widely known.
 

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Notice how everyone on facebook appears to have a life and a party of smiles? It's gotta be all fake. It's what you see of others....that they're happier, outgoing, etc. Most of my connections are IMO Attention seeking. They have hundreds of connections. In person tho they are shallow and hollow.

Limit your use of those sites. Only connect people who ask to connect to you. Don't have long conversations about the past (school mates) because it just drags on and on. Go to this site, learn the DJ ways and learn to do face-to-face. Facebook, myspace, etc. is a big trap!
 
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