"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Myspace, Facebook, ect... What's the deal?

SharinganUser

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I just found out that on facebook(and I am sure it's on myspace) that you can post events and parties and what not.

My idea was to check the events and see what bars the people would be hitting up. I would then go to said bar and well you know how b-day girls/party's can get.

I think it's an ok idea, but my housemate (who's an afc) doesn't agree for reason's that just don't add up. What do you all think of using these sites like yellowpages-getting-laid-edition?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jack McCrack

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I don't know about you man but if I go to a bar I don't it as an event on myspace.
 

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"I don't know about you man but if I go to a bar I don't it as an event on myspace."

I don't understand that sentence.

People are listing their parties and saying what bars they are going to hit up.
 

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Not a bad idea I must say. While you're at it, you might as well creep the pages of the girls that are going, you can get an idea of which ones are single...check out their pics to get a read on whether you think they might be interested in you.

Of course at the same time I find this idea somewhat creepy, and I think a lot of people share the same sentiments.
 

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Sounds like to much research to me. If you already know the woman why don't you setup something one on one? If you don't know them, then just go straight to a bar and find some other random?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bman

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i think thats called stalking. just go to any bar, theres always chicks there.
 

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Nothing wrong with it. Just don't let other people know you're doing it.

And yes, check out which ones are "single" to help you maximize your time and efforts.
 

SharinganUser

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bman said:
i think thats called stalking. just go to any bar, theres always chicks there.
No, stalking is when you follow them from one place to another. If you go to a yoga class to meet women, you are not stalking them.

green69 said:
Not a bad idea I must say. While you're at it, you might as well creep the pages of the girls that are going, you can get an idea of which ones are single...check out their pics to get a read on whether you think they might be interested in you.

Of course at the same time I find this idea somewhat creepy, and I think a lot of people share the same sentiments.

I can understand why you might think this as a creepy idea, but some women would think the same thing about a guy that visits sites that give advice on how to pick up women.

These girls are posting it on the internet in an open website that allows anyone to see the details. It's safe to assume they don't want a private party.
 

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SharinganUser said:
I can understand why you might think this as a creepy idea, but some women would think the same thing about a guy that visits sites that give advice on how to pick up women.
Don't ever tell anyone about this site, except maybe your best bud, and take it to the grave with you.
In fact i think girls think any guy that wants to get some is creepy, unless he's hot of course which shows higher value, but otherwise that's why we have to play these stupid games.
It's all about who has the power and boy do i know i'm kidding myself when i act like i don't want it... but amazingly it works.

Oh yeah and i do the whole myspace thing. It's great if you have a lot of ass chasing you, but not so great when you start out.
 

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SharinganUser said:
I just found out that on facebook(and I am sure it's on myspace) that you can post events and parties and what not.

My idea was to check the events and see what bars the people would be hitting up. I would then go to said bar and well you know how b-day girls/party's can get.

I think it's an ok idea, but my housemate (who's an afc) doesn't agree for reason's that just don't add up. What do you all think of using these sites like yellowpages-getting-laid-edition?
i don't ask for advice from AFC's.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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**** dude that's standard fair at my college.

Of course, everyone at my college knows everyone else there. So things like who's single and who's not are widely known.
 

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Notice how everyone on facebook appears to have a life and a party of smiles? It's gotta be all fake. It's what you see of others....that they're happier, outgoing, etc. Most of my connections are IMO Attention seeking. They have hundreds of connections. In person tho they are shallow and hollow.

Limit your use of those sites. Only connect people who ask to connect to you. Don't have long conversations about the past (school mates) because it just drags on and on. Go to this site, learn the DJ ways and learn to do face-to-face. Facebook, myspace, etc. is a big trap!
 
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