"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
MySpace Chumps - Consider yourself warned,..
- Thread starter Rollo Tomassi
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Money2burn
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LoL nice reality check.
sandman6991
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If they have a full body shot....and many of them...you don't really have much to worry about.
I've been fine when meeting girls off Myspace
I've been fine when meeting girls off Myspace
Obliteraga
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I still think it has a lot of potential. Every one of those photos triggered the "something's not right" instinct in me. If they have full body shots and various other angles, you can usually tell what you're dealing with. If they don't have that kind of picture, ask for one.
It's stupid to write off an entire medium because some people on there are ugly, fat who.res who play angle games.
It's stupid to write off an entire medium because some people on there are ugly, fat who.res who play angle games.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
:crackup: Another, reason why I game women in REAL LIFE!!!
amnbyrd
Don Juan
Deleted mine about a week ago-now its time to get some real game together!
fools, when you meet a girl from myspace, you are meeting her IN REAL LIFE, and later that night, you are FCUKING HER IN REAL LIFE
nobody cares about the approach, what matters is the end result
if you don't know how to use myspace, then don't use it, but don't talk shyt about it either because you sound like a total fool if you do
nobody cares about the approach, what matters is the end result
if you don't know how to use myspace, then don't use it, but don't talk shyt about it either because you sound like a total fool if you do
amnbyrd
Don Juan
Guess its not for everyone, I think its embarrassing when either your friends or hers ask where you met and you reply with myspace. But whatever works.
its embarassing if you don't have true confidence in yourself
if my friend was gonna talk shyt about me hooking up with girls on myspace, i'd shove the girls' pictures in his face and tell him "take a look at who you DIDNT hook up with homo"
seriously
if my friend was gonna talk shyt about me hooking up with girls on myspace, i'd shove the girls' pictures in his face and tell him "take a look at who you DIDNT hook up with homo"
seriously
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Just so you all know...half those pics were fakes, or the pictures were of two different people. Myspace is fairly safe, and its easy as f.uck. And so what happens if you show up to meet the chick and she's butt ugly? You walk away, thats what. You really have nothing to lose.
ValleyDJing said:
i have literally met a couple of girls before who looked like 7's in pics, and turned out to be 2's, and i said, verbally "listen, you are ugly in real life and i dont wanna chill with u" - to which they would say "ok" but obviously sad about it
i felt kinda bad doing it, but DAMN, to hell with those fake hoes!!!
Someone Much cooler
Senior Don Juan
yeah i call it lying. if she decieves me then i will keep it funky wit her. what do they expect will happen if they use deception? sometimes I'll be like "listen mamma, I'm only lookin for plutonic friendship...wit u"
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Getting a b!tch off myspace takes no skill. You just tell her what she wants to hear. I look for higher quality women. Not attention hors, sluts, and flakes. I don't want no hood rat. Unless you can find th 5% of women who arnt hors on myspace. I say fvck myspace; its another reason for people to be lazy and "game" girls over the internet... Haha whatever floats ur boat I guess.Real said:
Hah like tell them to you somewhere. You see her and think '**** she's ugly'. Just keeping walking. If she says "you that guy", "who, nope, sorry dont know what your talking about!".
I don't think that all the girls on myspace are skanky anention hor sluts. It's just too common. I would only say about the ones with skanky pictures. A huge amount of the myspace crowd is 12-16 too.
I don't think that all the girls on myspace are skanky anention hor sluts. It's just too common. I would only say about the ones with skanky pictures. A huge amount of the myspace crowd is 12-16 too.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
:crackup:
Ahhh, nothing like perspective.
Online dating rule #1: beware the profile with only tight head shot pics.
Ahhh, nothing like perspective.
Online dating rule #1: beware the profile with only tight head shot pics.
What my mate told me is that once you have their number for the meet, arrange a place to meet and call from far away.SinJester said:
Watch for who ever picks up their phone, if their not what you expected you can leave.
MySpace is suppose to be a tool, and only a tool. It's for that 10 mins free you have before going to work, I don't think it's a good idea spending too much time on it.
I only use it during my free time, message 20 or so girls, who ever replies, sweet, whoever doesn't, oh well.