"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
MySpace Chumps - Consider yourself warned,..
- Thread starter Rollo Tomassi
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Money2burn
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LoL nice reality check.
sandman6991
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If they have a full body shot....and many of them...you don't really have much to worry about.
I've been fine when meeting girls off Myspace
I've been fine when meeting girls off Myspace
Obliteraga
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I still think it has a lot of potential. Every one of those photos triggered the "something's not right" instinct in me. If they have full body shots and various other angles, you can usually tell what you're dealing with. If they don't have that kind of picture, ask for one.
It's stupid to write off an entire medium because some people on there are ugly, fat who.res who play angle games.
It's stupid to write off an entire medium because some people on there are ugly, fat who.res who play angle games.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
:crackup: Another, reason why I game women in REAL LIFE!!!
amnbyrd
Don Juan
Deleted mine about a week ago-now its time to get some real game together!
fools, when you meet a girl from myspace, you are meeting her IN REAL LIFE, and later that night, you are FCUKING HER IN REAL LIFE
nobody cares about the approach, what matters is the end result
if you don't know how to use myspace, then don't use it, but don't talk shyt about it either because you sound like a total fool if you do
nobody cares about the approach, what matters is the end result
if you don't know how to use myspace, then don't use it, but don't talk shyt about it either because you sound like a total fool if you do
amnbyrd
Don Juan
Guess its not for everyone, I think its embarrassing when either your friends or hers ask where you met and you reply with myspace. But whatever works.
its embarassing if you don't have true confidence in yourself
if my friend was gonna talk shyt about me hooking up with girls on myspace, i'd shove the girls' pictures in his face and tell him "take a look at who you DIDNT hook up with homo"
seriously
if my friend was gonna talk shyt about me hooking up with girls on myspace, i'd shove the girls' pictures in his face and tell him "take a look at who you DIDNT hook up with homo"
seriously
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Just so you all know...half those pics were fakes, or the pictures were of two different people. Myspace is fairly safe, and its easy as f.uck. And so what happens if you show up to meet the chick and she's butt ugly? You walk away, thats what. You really have nothing to lose.
ValleyDJing said:
i have literally met a couple of girls before who looked like 7's in pics, and turned out to be 2's, and i said, verbally "listen, you are ugly in real life and i dont wanna chill with u" - to which they would say "ok" but obviously sad about it
i felt kinda bad doing it, but DAMN, to hell with those fake hoes!!!
Someone Much cooler
Senior Don Juan
yeah i call it lying. if she decieves me then i will keep it funky wit her. what do they expect will happen if they use deception? sometimes I'll be like "listen mamma, I'm only lookin for plutonic friendship...wit u"
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Getting a b!tch off myspace takes no skill. You just tell her what she wants to hear. I look for higher quality women. Not attention hors, sluts, and flakes. I don't want no hood rat. Unless you can find th 5% of women who arnt hors on myspace. I say fvck myspace; its another reason for people to be lazy and "game" girls over the internet... Haha whatever floats ur boat I guess.Real said:
Hah like tell them to you somewhere. You see her and think '**** she's ugly'. Just keeping walking. If she says "you that guy", "who, nope, sorry dont know what your talking about!".
I don't think that all the girls on myspace are skanky anention hor sluts. It's just too common. I would only say about the ones with skanky pictures. A huge amount of the myspace crowd is 12-16 too.
I don't think that all the girls on myspace are skanky anention hor sluts. It's just too common. I would only say about the ones with skanky pictures. A huge amount of the myspace crowd is 12-16 too.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
:crackup:
Ahhh, nothing like perspective.
Online dating rule #1: beware the profile with only tight head shot pics.
Ahhh, nothing like perspective.
Online dating rule #1: beware the profile with only tight head shot pics.
What my mate told me is that once you have their number for the meet, arrange a place to meet and call from far away.SinJester said:
Watch for who ever picks up their phone, if their not what you expected you can leave.
MySpace is suppose to be a tool, and only a tool. It's for that 10 mins free you have before going to work, I don't think it's a good idea spending too much time on it.
I only use it during my free time, message 20 or so girls, who ever replies, sweet, whoever doesn't, oh well.