"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MySpace Chumps - Consider yourself warned,..
- Thread starter Rollo Tomassi
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Money2burn
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LoL nice reality check.
sandman6991
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If they have a full body shot....and many of them...you don't really have much to worry about.
I've been fine when meeting girls off Myspace
I've been fine when meeting girls off Myspace
Obliteraga
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I still think it has a lot of potential. Every one of those photos triggered the "something's not right" instinct in me. If they have full body shots and various other angles, you can usually tell what you're dealing with. If they don't have that kind of picture, ask for one.
It's stupid to write off an entire medium because some people on there are ugly, fat who.res who play angle games.
It's stupid to write off an entire medium because some people on there are ugly, fat who.res who play angle games.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
:crackup: Another, reason why I game women in REAL LIFE!!!
amnbyrd
Don Juan
Deleted mine about a week ago-now its time to get some real game together!
fools, when you meet a girl from myspace, you are meeting her IN REAL LIFE, and later that night, you are FCUKING HER IN REAL LIFE
nobody cares about the approach, what matters is the end result
if you don't know how to use myspace, then don't use it, but don't talk shyt about it either because you sound like a total fool if you do
nobody cares about the approach, what matters is the end result
if you don't know how to use myspace, then don't use it, but don't talk shyt about it either because you sound like a total fool if you do
amnbyrd
Don Juan
Guess its not for everyone, I think its embarrassing when either your friends or hers ask where you met and you reply with myspace. But whatever works.
its embarassing if you don't have true confidence in yourself
if my friend was gonna talk shyt about me hooking up with girls on myspace, i'd shove the girls' pictures in his face and tell him "take a look at who you DIDNT hook up with homo"
seriously
if my friend was gonna talk shyt about me hooking up with girls on myspace, i'd shove the girls' pictures in his face and tell him "take a look at who you DIDNT hook up with homo"
seriously
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Just so you all know...half those pics were fakes, or the pictures were of two different people. Myspace is fairly safe, and its easy as f.uck. And so what happens if you show up to meet the chick and she's butt ugly? You walk away, thats what. You really have nothing to lose.
ValleyDJing said:
i have literally met a couple of girls before who looked like 7's in pics, and turned out to be 2's, and i said, verbally "listen, you are ugly in real life and i dont wanna chill with u" - to which they would say "ok" but obviously sad about it
i felt kinda bad doing it, but DAMN, to hell with those fake hoes!!!
Someone Much cooler
Senior Don Juan
yeah i call it lying. if she decieves me then i will keep it funky wit her. what do they expect will happen if they use deception? sometimes I'll be like "listen mamma, I'm only lookin for plutonic friendship...wit u"
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Getting a b!tch off myspace takes no skill. You just tell her what she wants to hear. I look for higher quality women. Not attention hors, sluts, and flakes. I don't want no hood rat. Unless you can find th 5% of women who arnt hors on myspace. I say fvck myspace; its another reason for people to be lazy and "game" girls over the internet... Haha whatever floats ur boat I guess.Real said:
Hah like tell them to you somewhere. You see her and think '**** she's ugly'. Just keeping walking. If she says "you that guy", "who, nope, sorry dont know what your talking about!".
I don't think that all the girls on myspace are skanky anention hor sluts. It's just too common. I would only say about the ones with skanky pictures. A huge amount of the myspace crowd is 12-16 too.
I don't think that all the girls on myspace are skanky anention hor sluts. It's just too common. I would only say about the ones with skanky pictures. A huge amount of the myspace crowd is 12-16 too.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
:crackup:
Ahhh, nothing like perspective.
Online dating rule #1: beware the profile with only tight head shot pics.
Ahhh, nothing like perspective.
Online dating rule #1: beware the profile with only tight head shot pics.
What my mate told me is that once you have their number for the meet, arrange a place to meet and call from far away.SinJester said:
Watch for who ever picks up their phone, if their not what you expected you can leave.
MySpace is suppose to be a tool, and only a tool. It's for that 10 mins free you have before going to work, I don't think it's a good idea spending too much time on it.
I only use it during my free time, message 20 or so girls, who ever replies, sweet, whoever doesn't, oh well.