"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My year out....from caring!!!

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Right,
i'm 24 years old and have had moderate success with chicks in my life. However, at the moment I am just so annoyed with caring so much.

Why am I annoyed
1.) Ugly women had the audacity to reject me this last year.
2.) Moderate women are not respecting my strengths enough.
3.) I always seem to start going after after women, they get disinterest somehow and then suddenly I'm chasing her.
4.) I have a very sexy f*ck buddy anyway, so why should I care.

So for the next 12 months I'm just going to say "to hell with it". Instead of giving a s*it im just going to be fun, sociable, stay detatched from romantic thoughts, tease women when I want to, ignore them when i'm bored of them.

For now I'm not going to be bothered whether I apply DJ knowledge or not. I'm just going to work on my basic sociability and enjoy myself a bit more.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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why you hitting on ugly chicks? lol @ you, why you mad that a ugly chick dissed you? get over it man

2. what are your strengths? why should a "moderate" women respect your strength?

3.gett disintersted how? what are you saying? or not doing or doing?

4. Your settlng and you do care, obviously your FB isn't good enough because you still trying to get more

From this post alone, I can tell you have shtty attidude, re-adjust your frame, be more postive, you come off as an as$hole, and what women wants that?

2. You should be having fun anyway when you go out where women, try it you'd be surprised it really works!
 

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Theres nothing more annoying than when some random on this forum tells you that you have a negative attitude and come off as an ******* and that it dosnt attract women

obviously, einstein ! i dont come across like that ! you dont know me !
 

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Single_Sucks said:
Theres nothing more annoying than when some random on this forum tells you that you have a negative attitude and come off as an ******* and that it dosnt attract women

obviously, einstein ! i dont come across like that ! you dont know me !
These statements coupled together smack of an excellent oxymoron.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lol funny thread
 

DonJuan11

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Single_Sucks said:
Right,
i'm 24 years old and have had moderate success with chicks in my life. However, at the moment I am just so annoyed with caring so much.

Why am I annoyed
1.) Ugly women had the audacity to reject me this last year.

They rejected you because you didn't turn them on. They will not like you because you are you. Ugly, White, Black, Tall, Short, Fat, Skinny, they are all the same, you have to turn them on in the right way if you want to sleep with them.

2.) Moderate women are not respecting my strengths enough.

You sound very self centered when you say this. (How dare she reject me, doesn't she know I can bench press 175 lbs? How dare she reject me, doesn't she know I make $500,000 a year? How dare she reject me, doesn't she know I'm 6'2 and ripped?) That thinking is way off base. If don't turn her on, make her excited, have her jumping up and down when she sees you, whatever "strength" you have won't matter.

That's a scary statment too. If you say that about moderate woman, what are you going to do when your girlfriend of six months doesn't respect your strengths? Beat her?


3.) I always seem to start going after after women, they get disinterest somehow and then suddenly I'm chasing her.
4.) I have a very sexy f*ck buddy anyway, so why should I care.
You obviously do care, otherwise you wouldn't be writing this. It appears your ego is very high and you cannot stand any woman rejecting you. You have to knock yourself down a few pegs and enjoy your life, woman are just a byproduct of it.
 

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I agree. Your ego is making you worry too much and it's affecting your interaction with women. Stop worrying about making them NOT care and just act how you want to act. That's CONFIDENCE. If they don't like you, then there are plenty of others who will.
 

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I don't know what's the party-line here but i have a policy of helping those who want help and from what i'm reading this guy CLEARLY doesn't want what we have to offer
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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