Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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My year out....from caring!!!

Single_Sucks

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Right,
i'm 24 years old and have had moderate success with chicks in my life. However, at the moment I am just so annoyed with caring so much.

Why am I annoyed
1.) Ugly women had the audacity to reject me this last year.
2.) Moderate women are not respecting my strengths enough.
3.) I always seem to start going after after women, they get disinterest somehow and then suddenly I'm chasing her.
4.) I have a very sexy f*ck buddy anyway, so why should I care.

So for the next 12 months I'm just going to say "to hell with it". Instead of giving a s*it im just going to be fun, sociable, stay detatched from romantic thoughts, tease women when I want to, ignore them when i'm bored of them.

For now I'm not going to be bothered whether I apply DJ knowledge or not. I'm just going to work on my basic sociability and enjoy myself a bit more.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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why you hitting on ugly chicks? lol @ you, why you mad that a ugly chick dissed you? get over it man

2. what are your strengths? why should a "moderate" women respect your strength?

3.gett disintersted how? what are you saying? or not doing or doing?

4. Your settlng and you do care, obviously your FB isn't good enough because you still trying to get more

From this post alone, I can tell you have shtty attidude, re-adjust your frame, be more postive, you come off as an as$hole, and what women wants that?

2. You should be having fun anyway when you go out where women, try it you'd be surprised it really works!
 

Single_Sucks

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Theres nothing more annoying than when some random on this forum tells you that you have a negative attitude and come off as an ******* and that it dosnt attract women

obviously, einstein ! i dont come across like that ! you dont know me !
 

I'm Charming

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Single_Sucks said:
Theres nothing more annoying than when some random on this forum tells you that you have a negative attitude and come off as an ******* and that it dosnt attract women

obviously, einstein ! i dont come across like that ! you dont know me !
These statements coupled together smack of an excellent oxymoron.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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lol funny thread
 

DonJuan11

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Single_Sucks said:
Right,
i'm 24 years old and have had moderate success with chicks in my life. However, at the moment I am just so annoyed with caring so much.

Why am I annoyed
1.) Ugly women had the audacity to reject me this last year.

They rejected you because you didn't turn them on. They will not like you because you are you. Ugly, White, Black, Tall, Short, Fat, Skinny, they are all the same, you have to turn them on in the right way if you want to sleep with them.

2.) Moderate women are not respecting my strengths enough.

You sound very self centered when you say this. (How dare she reject me, doesn't she know I can bench press 175 lbs? How dare she reject me, doesn't she know I make $500,000 a year? How dare she reject me, doesn't she know I'm 6'2 and ripped?) That thinking is way off base. If don't turn her on, make her excited, have her jumping up and down when she sees you, whatever "strength" you have won't matter.

That's a scary statment too. If you say that about moderate woman, what are you going to do when your girlfriend of six months doesn't respect your strengths? Beat her?


3.) I always seem to start going after after women, they get disinterest somehow and then suddenly I'm chasing her.
4.) I have a very sexy f*ck buddy anyway, so why should I care.
You obviously do care, otherwise you wouldn't be writing this. It appears your ego is very high and you cannot stand any woman rejecting you. You have to knock yourself down a few pegs and enjoy your life, woman are just a byproduct of it.
 

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I agree. Your ego is making you worry too much and it's affecting your interaction with women. Stop worrying about making them NOT care and just act how you want to act. That's CONFIDENCE. If they don't like you, then there are plenty of others who will.
 

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I don't know what's the party-line here but i have a policy of helping those who want help and from what i'm reading this guy CLEARLY doesn't want what we have to offer
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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