"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My year out....from caring!!!

Single_Sucks

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Right,
i'm 24 years old and have had moderate success with chicks in my life. However, at the moment I am just so annoyed with caring so much.

Why am I annoyed
1.) Ugly women had the audacity to reject me this last year.
2.) Moderate women are not respecting my strengths enough.
3.) I always seem to start going after after women, they get disinterest somehow and then suddenly I'm chasing her.
4.) I have a very sexy f*ck buddy anyway, so why should I care.

So for the next 12 months I'm just going to say "to hell with it". Instead of giving a s*it im just going to be fun, sociable, stay detatched from romantic thoughts, tease women when I want to, ignore them when i'm bored of them.

For now I'm not going to be bothered whether I apply DJ knowledge or not. I'm just going to work on my basic sociability and enjoy myself a bit more.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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why you hitting on ugly chicks? lol @ you, why you mad that a ugly chick dissed you? get over it man

2. what are your strengths? why should a "moderate" women respect your strength?

3.gett disintersted how? what are you saying? or not doing or doing?

4. Your settlng and you do care, obviously your FB isn't good enough because you still trying to get more

From this post alone, I can tell you have shtty attidude, re-adjust your frame, be more postive, you come off as an as$hole, and what women wants that?

2. You should be having fun anyway when you go out where women, try it you'd be surprised it really works!
 

Single_Sucks

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Theres nothing more annoying than when some random on this forum tells you that you have a negative attitude and come off as an ******* and that it dosnt attract women

obviously, einstein ! i dont come across like that ! you dont know me !
 

I'm Charming

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Single_Sucks said:
Theres nothing more annoying than when some random on this forum tells you that you have a negative attitude and come off as an ******* and that it dosnt attract women

obviously, einstein ! i dont come across like that ! you dont know me !
These statements coupled together smack of an excellent oxymoron.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lol funny thread
 

DonJuan11

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Single_Sucks said:
Right,
i'm 24 years old and have had moderate success with chicks in my life. However, at the moment I am just so annoyed with caring so much.

Why am I annoyed
1.) Ugly women had the audacity to reject me this last year.

They rejected you because you didn't turn them on. They will not like you because you are you. Ugly, White, Black, Tall, Short, Fat, Skinny, they are all the same, you have to turn them on in the right way if you want to sleep with them.

2.) Moderate women are not respecting my strengths enough.

You sound very self centered when you say this. (How dare she reject me, doesn't she know I can bench press 175 lbs? How dare she reject me, doesn't she know I make $500,000 a year? How dare she reject me, doesn't she know I'm 6'2 and ripped?) That thinking is way off base. If don't turn her on, make her excited, have her jumping up and down when she sees you, whatever "strength" you have won't matter.

That's a scary statment too. If you say that about moderate woman, what are you going to do when your girlfriend of six months doesn't respect your strengths? Beat her?


3.) I always seem to start going after after women, they get disinterest somehow and then suddenly I'm chasing her.
4.) I have a very sexy f*ck buddy anyway, so why should I care.
You obviously do care, otherwise you wouldn't be writing this. It appears your ego is very high and you cannot stand any woman rejecting you. You have to knock yourself down a few pegs and enjoy your life, woman are just a byproduct of it.
 

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I agree. Your ego is making you worry too much and it's affecting your interaction with women. Stop worrying about making them NOT care and just act how you want to act. That's CONFIDENCE. If they don't like you, then there are plenty of others who will.
 

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I don't know what's the party-line here but i have a policy of helping those who want help and from what i'm reading this guy CLEARLY doesn't want what we have to offer
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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