My week from Online dating apps - LRs

[Cheeky_James]

Hey fellas.

just a lil check in , re the week I’ve had from my Online App activites.

Saturday - woman 1 form Hinge. Went down the coast and went to a day festival of rock/punk bands. Super cool event. 3pm arrival , 4-11pm at the gig. Lotsa sexy dancing ,pashing, groping at gig in evening. Tipsy fun. Back to her place . Hot ****ing until 4am. Killer BJ. Morning sex on Sunday.

wedneasay- woman 2 from Hinge. Straight to the house netflix and chill date @7pm , Younger , way hotter than expected super sexy chick. ****ing by 8:30pm -> 2am . Insane porno sex. Insane BJ. Hard smashing . Very wild. Went to raw dogging when ran out of condoms (oopsies ‍ ) Thursday Morning sex.
My head was spinning it was so good.
Totally drained on Thursday. Drinking beroccas and hypdrolytes all day Thurs and had a nap.

Thursday- woman 3 from Feeld. 3rd date bang. Super hot . Another insane BJ , more super hard smashing. Very kinky and switchy lady, Friday morning sex.
absolutely wrecked Friday. More beroccas and hydralytes for salts and recovery,

Saturday- woman 3 again. 10pm. Hard smashing until 3am.

sunday - woman 3 booked again.

monday - woman 2 the younger hottie booked for the day time.

Crazy stuff and I am exhausted but very happy to be getting so much action w a rotation of 3-4 lately,
This week has been the busiest tho,
Making hay while the sun is shining

Happy days. I do like Online Dating

James

 

[Cheeky_James]

Edit :
Forgot to add
Saturday (yesterday) I fvcked an old ex lover at 6pm for 2 hours. And she squirted a massive wet patch on her duvet.

THEN I smashed woman 3 at 10pm onwards.

phew.
So 4 ladies this week.

Any tips on recovery , recharge and reloading between Bangs would be greatly appreciated.

I’m losing quite a bit of vitamins salts and minerals at the moment. ‍

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what I have been reminded of this week;

> women like to be fvcked hard.
Like. Really,really hard.
Vibrator-on-top-speed and as hard as I can go level of hard fand fast/intense )

> Also I am rusty with my fingerbanging and manual pvssy handling skills
It’s taking me a long time , and lotsa work /moves to get women off (if they don’t in the early bangs)
I’ve gotten a cramp in my arms from frigging chick one w her vibrator with one arm bent and furiously rubbing her **** area w the other arm bent while lying below her

> ive also got near lockjaw a few times from the intense ***** licking and **** sucking , and how long and intense that can go.

> doing switchy sex stuff and S&M Dom kinda stuff impromptu and in the moment ..is HOT AF.

hats off to porn stars. Gotta be pretty fit and chock full of cvm to do that **** all day long ,day after day. Sheeit.

phew! ‍

that is all my LRs and details now. CJ.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Do you not have a job? Either you are seriously dragging ass every day or you work crazy hours or aren't working

 

[Cheeky_James]

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Do you not have a job? Either you are seriously dragging ass every day or you work crazy hours or aren't working

Haha. I work crazy odd hours.
And had 2 shifts cancel this week so..

 

[BillyPilgrim]

First off, congrats OP. Strong work. But can't help but wonder, what the hell is a 3-Date Kate doing on Feeld? What were you doing for 2 dates with a chick you met off a casual sex app?

 

[Bible_Belt]

Would you share what country you are in? UK?

 

[Cheeky_James]

First off, congrats OP. Strong work. But can't help but wonder, what the hell is a 3-Date Kate doing on Feeld? What were you doing for 2 date with a chick you met off a casual sex app?

3DK stealing that one.
She’s a very kinky chick, and looking for a steady part time lover for a kinky & ongoing relationship, So it was 2 dates to ‘vet’ me.. and scan for flags I suppose.

This one is a super flirt & tease also. So the 2 dates were great fun… I was left v prickteased at the end of both, (I don’t mind that tbh, really builds things up , to the super hot 1st bang).

 

[Cheeky_James]

Would you share what country you are in? UK?

hmm I’d rather not.
I’m from UK area originally but living on the other end of the planet now.
So that narrows it down to an easy guess for you

 

[Bible_Belt]

hmm I’d rather not.
I’m from UK area originally but living on the other end of the planet now.
So that narrows it down to an easy guess for you

I suspected a Brit. My former wife is a UK citizen and the only reason I have heard the word cheeky. Her mother would often also call me "daft," another word that, for the sake of my fellow Ameicans reading this, translates loosely to smartas5. Good luck in your adventures.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

3DK stealing that one.
She’s a very kinky chick, and looking for a steady part time lover for a kinky & ongoing relationship, So it was 2 dates to ‘vet’ me.. and scan for flags I suppose.

This one is a super flirt & tease also. So the 2 dates were great fun… I was left v prickteased at the end of both, (I don’t mind that tbh, really builds things up , to the super hot 1st bang).

Ya I avoid those lol. See them on Feeld and on Tinder from time to time. "Oh I love sex and am into x, y, and z yada yada but I'm sooo worth the wait!" Like who TF doesn't love sex and being adventurous?

Lucky for you it worked out. Bang her silly while you can.

What they don't tell you is that they've had their fill of D and aren't very horny for it, despite having a naturally high sex drive. Your sex starved recent divorcee from a dead bedroom marriage is usually a better bet.

 

[Cheeky_James]

I suspected a Brit. My former wife is a UK citizen and the only reason I have heard the word cheeky. Her mother would often also call me "daft," another word that, for the sake of my fellow Ameicans reading this, translates loosely to smartas5. Good luck in your adventures.

Haha. Yes. ‘daft’ is a good one too…
Btw what’s the story w your profile pic..is that a porno pic, I wouldn’t mind that situation heh heh

 

[Cheeky_James]

Ya I avoid those lol. See them on Feeld and on Tinder from time to time. "Oh I love sex and am into x, y, and z yada yada but I'm sooo worth the wait!" Like who TF doesn't love sex and being adventurous?

Lucky for you it worked out. Bang her silly while you can.

What they don't tell you is that they've had their fill of D and aren't very horny for it, despite having a naturally high sex drive. Your sex starved recent divorcee from a dead bedroom marriage is usually a better bet.

yeah I get what you mean re FEELD.
There’s some false cat-fishy stuff going on.
But then there are also chicks really into kink, S&M 3ways, couple Swings, clubs, queer/bisexual.
So it can get next level spicy .. vs the divorcee.

divorcees doing that “journey” of spicy will be on Feeld , Fetlife and the Swinger apps also.

the thing about FEELD is .. the app is really crap. It’s glitchy AF and super slow re matches

 

[BillyPilgrim]

yeah I get what you mean re FEELD.
There’s some false cat-fishy stuff going on.
But then there are also chicks really into kink, S&M 3ways, couple Swings, clubs, queer/bisexual.
So it can get next level spicy .. vs the divorcee.

divorcees doing that “journey” of spicy will be on Feeld , Fetlife and the Swinger apps also.

the thing about FEELD is .. the app is really crap. It’s glitchy AF and super slow re matches

To be fair divorcees doing the 'journey" will typically be down on date 1, often straight to yours or theirs, no waiting 3 dates

 

[Bingo-Player]

I think your going to quickly come to realise that once the novelty wears off more than 1-2 a week are going to become a headache

The problem is once the novelty of the sex wears off the women start wanting more intimacy, attention, time / money invested , Not Many women will be happy with a couple of random steamy sex sessions and nothing else

unless they are cheating

None of these sound like one night stand scenarios either , it sounds like your dating then fvcking which is going to lead to grander expectations further down the line

I think you either clearly outline your in it for a casual FWB thing as and when , or you keep it to 2-3 women in a permanent rotation and alternate them through the month

Trying to have it all ways with multiple women is just going to end up leaving you in a physical and psychological mess

it does sound like a dream on paper, in reality once you've done it for a bit its far from it

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I think your going to quickly come to realise that once the novelty wears off more than 1-2 a week are going to become a headache

The problem is once the novelty of the sex wears off the women start wanting more intimacy, attention, time / money invested , Not Many women will be happy with a couple of random steamy sex sessions and nothing else

unless they are cheating

None of these sound like one night stand scenarios either , it sounds like your dating then fvcking which is going to lead to grander expectations further down the line

I think you either clearly outline your in it for a casual FWB thing as and when , or you keep it to 2-3 women in a permanent rotation and alternate them through the month

Trying to have it all ways with multiple women is just going to end up leaving you in a physical and psychological mess

it does sound like a dream on paper, in reality once you've done it for a bit its far from it

I think he's fine if he drops #3, she sounds like a headache waiting to happen. Making him unduly wait and then wanting all of his time.

#1 sounds iffy as well, having to go to an all day festival to get the P sounds too investing.

#2 sounds like the winner here, from the info provided he should seek to keep her in the rotation and build from there. The other 2 will be wanting too much imo. Just take her (#2) out now and then to keep her hooked.

 

[Cheeky_James]

@BillyPilgrim

re the whole 3 dates thing.
This is a different type of situation to the norm,
With kinky chicks, this x # of dates/meetings requirement is the vetting process to assess all the kink stuff .gain safety and trust etc. Once a guy is vetted. Then it’s the big payoff of kink sex/ ****/Dom -Sub action. All that ‘next level ‘ porno sex .

It’s a bit of a different world. I’m making some avenues in lately.

for example. I met a chick off Hinge who was very kinky (into Dom-sub). Banged her on meet 1 very quick. After this ..a bit of chat after a quiet spell.. now crickets. I guess I wasn’t Dom/Kink enough for her in bed.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

@BillyPilgrim

re the whole 3 dates thing.
This is a different type of situation to the norm,
With kinky chicks, this x # of dates/meetings requirement is the vetting process to assess all the kink stuff .gain safety and trust etc. Once a guy is vetted. Then it’s the big payoff of kink sex/ ****/Dom -Sub action. All that ‘next level ‘ porno sex .

It’s a bit of a different world. I’m making some avenues in lately.

for example. I met a chick off Hinge who was very kinky (into Dom-sub). Banged her on meet 1 very quick. After this ..a bit of chat after a quiet spell.. now crickets. I guess I wasn’t Dom/Kink enough for her in bed.

Okay, but her give some space to let things breathe. I imagine some of these chicks could have some trauma in their backgrounds leading them into the kink/fetish world that lends itself to instability. 3 sex dates in 4 days is a lot, unless she's about to leave town for months on end.

 

[Cheeky_James]

I think your going to quickly come to realise that once the novelty wears off more than 1-2 a week are going to become a headache

The problem is once the novelty of the sex wears off the women start wanting more intimacy, attention, time / money invested , Not Many women will be happy with a couple of random steamy sex sessions and nothing else

unless they are cheating

None of these sound like one night stand scenarios either , it sounds like your dating then fvcking which is going to lead to grander expectations further down the line

I think you either clearly outline your in it for a casual FWB thing as and when , or you keep it to 2-3 women in a permanent rotation and alternate them through the month

Trying to have it all ways with multiple women is just going to end up leaving you in a physical and psychological mess

it does sound like a dream on paper, in reality once you've done it for a bit its far from it

yeah this is the truth.
Back in the heyday.. my record was 6 chicks in a week. That was nuts.

to quote a player friend of mine whom I once bragged to I was seeing 4 women at once -
His reply “yeah that’s great mate .. but don’t forget , you have to TALK to them all too ;P”

very true. It’s a head melter all the comms, scheduling and listening to inane chat.
Even the sexytalk can get tiring.

If I had the money, well..I’d just use hot ‘scorts probably, (if I just wanted sex and variety). Much simpler and easier haha. And they piss off after the sex. XD

an open and clear rotation of 2 decent chicks is actually plenty . With an occasional bit of sexy variety here and there.

and just keep that going casual for a few months or however long…

 

[Cheeky_James]

Okay, but her give some space to let things breathe. I imagine some of these chicks could have some trauma in their backgrounds leading them into the kink/fetish world that lends itself to instability. 3 sex dates in 4 days is a lot, unless she's about to leave town for months on end.

yeah I cancelled on her tonite . I realised this.
We both would benefit from the space.
and I need to reload my mojo lol.


And now the young and hot #chick has also cancelled on me for the Monday

this week has been a case of , all ducks in a row .
a lot of the times w dating it’s the issue of tryna fit them all in. And doing double bookings efc haha
Can get stressful tryna schedule and meet them all tbh.

When the going is good and the sun is shining , I must try to make Hay tho. ‍

 

[Cheeky_James]

@BillyPilgrim and @Bingo-Player
Check out this dude on reddit
He did 65(!) in a year ..(insane)
And most were straight to his place off apps.
This is all true as far as I have verified.
Reads true too .. nmh all the way through.
He’s a 6Ft + black Tyrone type guy.

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1qxjv5l
I did maybe 25 one year , way back , that was hectic enough.