"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My weak point

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steve_erkle

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Now I'm posting this because I've realized its my biggest weakness and need help getting passed it.

i'm a good looking guy and have decent game. I've had hot girls throw themselves at me.

Sounds good right?...
No.

My problem is , that i just can not take it from the level where were both attracted to where were actually hooking up and everything. It's like, I'll like a girl and she'll like me but i'll be too scared to do anything about it.. and eventually the attraction fades. Anybody else like this? Anyone have any suggestions?

I'm pretty sure the only answer to this is to "just do it in spite of being scared"...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I used to be like this...but what I found best was to put yourself in the situation where it would be weird NOT to do anything. Get her alone, and just start talking. Let her know you are attracted, and you shouldn't have to do anything after that, it should just happen. If you are really scared, build the attraction up so much that she takes the next step.

Or take your own advice, and just go for it.
 
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I was like this too about 6 years ago, basically had no idea how to close

btw, if you can't close, be honest with yourself - you don't have decent game, you need to put in work

and your answer is right, you just gotta barrel through it until you've had enough experiences closing, that you're comfortable with it. and along the way, expect to lose a few girls and have a few awkward situations

it helps to understand that if the girl likes you, she WANTS you to close her, figure out all the logistics, and lead her through it. it also helps to understand basic female social conditioning, and why even though girls are horny as hell, they won't take responsibility for their sexual desires (and thus rely on you to make it happen). imagine the disappointment the girl feels when she thinks she's gonna get laid by this cool guy and he ends up emasculating himself
 
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