"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My weak point

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steve_erkle

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Now I'm posting this because I've realized its my biggest weakness and need help getting passed it.

i'm a good looking guy and have decent game. I've had hot girls throw themselves at me.

Sounds good right?...
No.

My problem is , that i just can not take it from the level where were both attracted to where were actually hooking up and everything. It's like, I'll like a girl and she'll like me but i'll be too scared to do anything about it.. and eventually the attraction fades. Anybody else like this? Anyone have any suggestions?

I'm pretty sure the only answer to this is to "just do it in spite of being scared"...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lansing

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I used to be like this...but what I found best was to put yourself in the situation where it would be weird NOT to do anything. Get her alone, and just start talking. Let her know you are attracted, and you shouldn't have to do anything after that, it should just happen. If you are really scared, build the attraction up so much that she takes the next step.

Or take your own advice, and just go for it.
 
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ready123

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I was like this too about 6 years ago, basically had no idea how to close

btw, if you can't close, be honest with yourself - you don't have decent game, you need to put in work

and your answer is right, you just gotta barrel through it until you've had enough experiences closing, that you're comfortable with it. and along the way, expect to lose a few girls and have a few awkward situations

it helps to understand that if the girl likes you, she WANTS you to close her, figure out all the logistics, and lead her through it. it also helps to understand basic female social conditioning, and why even though girls are horny as hell, they won't take responsibility for their sexual desires (and thus rely on you to make it happen). imagine the disappointment the girl feels when she thinks she's gonna get laid by this cool guy and he ends up emasculating himself
 
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