“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My ultimate ice-break!

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I don't know how this miracle occurred and i've always having very difficult with girls and dating. For a couple of months ago i've learned a great way of breaking the ice, at least for me. I chatted with a girl at MSN, after a while things went a little intimate(im not very shy on the net). We hugged virtually, just almost hugging. We would really like to meet each other (she lived about 160 miles away) and guess if I went happy when her parents should visit some friends in my hometown, of course she hooked on.

When the day had come, I took my bike and went over to the house where she was. There I was waiting for her to come out deeply welmed by my thoughts of getting a quiet and embarresing time and fail completley.

My illusion was wrong....

When she ran out i stretched my arms and gave her a great hug, seconds after that I hugged her again hard and long. We went in and said "Hi" to the bunch of people, therefore we ran upstairs and started to talk and hugged in a bed. We did'nt went for a kiss, but im sure that would happen if we where there a little bit longer (her parents called for her to go home) but well she got a little kiss on her forehead =)
If we had our time and no nobody was there im sure that would lead to sex.

Today there's nothing between us, I felt she quite wasn't my type, but im pretty glad anyway that my love-life got spiced up after 2 years of lonelyness.

My ways of communicate may be a little odd, but i hope my tip could help someone.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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That's great man!

You seem like me on one point, chatting on the net doesn't seem to bother you. I'm not boasting or anything when I'm saying this, but every single time I chat with a girl on the net, I make her yearn for me. I use C&F to the max and apply almost all of the other methods and it works excellent. But when it comes to hooking up in real life, it goes downwards with girls I don't know.

Btw, what're your thoughts on internet chatting in the long run?
I mean, sometimes it feels like I'm gonna adapt to internet and neglect real life when it comes to girls. What about you?
 
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Morphiex

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ummm what was your tip ??? o_O

cant really find anything that can help someone just a story about u meeting up with a chick u talked with on msn.....

personally i dont like the hole msn thing , its too scripted sometimes , Defenatly dont like to try to hookup with chicks over the net..... places like myspace and such.....
u never know how a girl acts in real life while shes all nice and sweet on the net.....
but hey thats just my opinnion do whatever u wanna do....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I caught the part about talking online 160 miles away, the part about your parents bringing you nearby, the part about kissing her forehead, but where was the icebreaker?
 
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Grow some balls and flirt in person. Chatting with em online wont help a bit if you cant deliver in person.
 
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Yer what is the point of dating over the net? I prefer to do it in person that way you know if it is actually a female you are talking to.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Bahamut_Raydeath
im pretty glad anyway that my love-life got spiced up after 2 years of lonelyness.
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Meeting chicks online is your tip? And your reward is a hug? You call that ****ing spicing up your love life? **** dude, I feel awful for you. It is ok though, just get some implants, and since it is already evident that you are lacking yo twigs n berries, it shouldn't be that hard to impersonate a lesbian and start pickin' up those hot dykes. Good luck man.
 
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dude, how old are you? And where is the tip?

Maybe if you are going to bother with the net make sure she lives near you...
 
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