"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My ultimate ice-break!

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I don't know how this miracle occurred and i've always having very difficult with girls and dating. For a couple of months ago i've learned a great way of breaking the ice, at least for me. I chatted with a girl at MSN, after a while things went a little intimate(im not very shy on the net). We hugged virtually, just almost hugging. We would really like to meet each other (she lived about 160 miles away) and guess if I went happy when her parents should visit some friends in my hometown, of course she hooked on.

When the day had come, I took my bike and went over to the house where she was. There I was waiting for her to come out deeply welmed by my thoughts of getting a quiet and embarresing time and fail completley.

My illusion was wrong....

When she ran out i stretched my arms and gave her a great hug, seconds after that I hugged her again hard and long. We went in and said "Hi" to the bunch of people, therefore we ran upstairs and started to talk and hugged in a bed. We did'nt went for a kiss, but im sure that would happen if we where there a little bit longer (her parents called for her to go home) but well she got a little kiss on her forehead =)
If we had our time and no nobody was there im sure that would lead to sex.

Today there's nothing between us, I felt she quite wasn't my type, but im pretty glad anyway that my love-life got spiced up after 2 years of lonelyness.

My ways of communicate may be a little odd, but i hope my tip could help someone.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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That's great man!

You seem like me on one point, chatting on the net doesn't seem to bother you. I'm not boasting or anything when I'm saying this, but every single time I chat with a girl on the net, I make her yearn for me. I use C&F to the max and apply almost all of the other methods and it works excellent. But when it comes to hooking up in real life, it goes downwards with girls I don't know.

Btw, what're your thoughts on internet chatting in the long run?
I mean, sometimes it feels like I'm gonna adapt to internet and neglect real life when it comes to girls. What about you?
 
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Morphiex

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ummm what was your tip ??? o_O

cant really find anything that can help someone just a story about u meeting up with a chick u talked with on msn.....

personally i dont like the hole msn thing , its too scripted sometimes , Defenatly dont like to try to hookup with chicks over the net..... places like myspace and such.....
u never know how a girl acts in real life while shes all nice and sweet on the net.....
but hey thats just my opinnion do whatever u wanna do....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Maeisgood

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I caught the part about talking online 160 miles away, the part about your parents bringing you nearby, the part about kissing her forehead, but where was the icebreaker?
 
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Grow some balls and flirt in person. Chatting with em online wont help a bit if you cant deliver in person.
 
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Yer what is the point of dating over the net? I prefer to do it in person that way you know if it is actually a female you are talking to.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Bahamut_Raydeath
im pretty glad anyway that my love-life got spiced up after 2 years of lonelyness.
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Meeting chicks online is your tip? And your reward is a hug? You call that ****ing spicing up your love life? **** dude, I feel awful for you. It is ok though, just get some implants, and since it is already evident that you are lacking yo twigs n berries, it shouldn't be that hard to impersonate a lesbian and start pickin' up those hot dykes. Good luck man.
 
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dude, how old are you? And where is the tip?

Maybe if you are going to bother with the net make sure she lives near you...
 
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