"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My ultimate ice-break!

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I don't know how this miracle occurred and i've always having very difficult with girls and dating. For a couple of months ago i've learned a great way of breaking the ice, at least for me. I chatted with a girl at MSN, after a while things went a little intimate(im not very shy on the net). We hugged virtually, just almost hugging. We would really like to meet each other (she lived about 160 miles away) and guess if I went happy when her parents should visit some friends in my hometown, of course she hooked on.

When the day had come, I took my bike and went over to the house where she was. There I was waiting for her to come out deeply welmed by my thoughts of getting a quiet and embarresing time and fail completley.

My illusion was wrong....

When she ran out i stretched my arms and gave her a great hug, seconds after that I hugged her again hard and long. We went in and said "Hi" to the bunch of people, therefore we ran upstairs and started to talk and hugged in a bed. We did'nt went for a kiss, but im sure that would happen if we where there a little bit longer (her parents called for her to go home) but well she got a little kiss on her forehead =)
If we had our time and no nobody was there im sure that would lead to sex.

Today there's nothing between us, I felt she quite wasn't my type, but im pretty glad anyway that my love-life got spiced up after 2 years of lonelyness.

My ways of communicate may be a little odd, but i hope my tip could help someone.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That's great man!

You seem like me on one point, chatting on the net doesn't seem to bother you. I'm not boasting or anything when I'm saying this, but every single time I chat with a girl on the net, I make her yearn for me. I use C&F to the max and apply almost all of the other methods and it works excellent. But when it comes to hooking up in real life, it goes downwards with girls I don't know.

Btw, what're your thoughts on internet chatting in the long run?
I mean, sometimes it feels like I'm gonna adapt to internet and neglect real life when it comes to girls. What about you?
 
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Morphiex

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ummm what was your tip ??? o_O

cant really find anything that can help someone just a story about u meeting up with a chick u talked with on msn.....

personally i dont like the hole msn thing , its too scripted sometimes , Defenatly dont like to try to hookup with chicks over the net..... places like myspace and such.....
u never know how a girl acts in real life while shes all nice and sweet on the net.....
but hey thats just my opinnion do whatever u wanna do....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I caught the part about talking online 160 miles away, the part about your parents bringing you nearby, the part about kissing her forehead, but where was the icebreaker?
 
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Grow some balls and flirt in person. Chatting with em online wont help a bit if you cant deliver in person.
 
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Yer what is the point of dating over the net? I prefer to do it in person that way you know if it is actually a female you are talking to.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Bahamut_Raydeath
im pretty glad anyway that my love-life got spiced up after 2 years of lonelyness.
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Meeting chicks online is your tip? And your reward is a hug? You call that ****ing spicing up your love life? **** dude, I feel awful for you. It is ok though, just get some implants, and since it is already evident that you are lacking yo twigs n berries, it shouldn't be that hard to impersonate a lesbian and start pickin' up those hot dykes. Good luck man.
 
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dude, how old are you? And where is the tip?

Maybe if you are going to bother with the net make sure she lives near you...
 
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