Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
IDK, but these females are hideous. If any of them left now, it would be financial suicide. Exercise a bit, eat heathy and that's about it. Now, if any of them have serious medical issues, then the dude should stick by them; as should the female. It's a coin-toss nowadays on that.There is anecdotal evidence that suggests Hugh Jackman is a closet homosexual.
Very handsome man, married to a matriarch while bombarded at all times by hot young women, and then giving lap dances to Scarlett Johanson -- think about it.
Same with Emanuel Macron, president of France. Handsome guy by all means, also married to matriarch and spends 30k/month on makeup.
Unless progressive, feminized standards of masculinity have made their way back to those generations.
I feel you on that. I rank all women, celebrity or not as a means of staying objective about the market. In many ways it has the same effect. I’m no 9 of 10, so expecting to bag one only leads to discouragement. And as OP said, even a male who is a 10 would be better served seriously dating a lesser woman.Had some bookmarks on an older computer, but I don't follow anyone anymore.
I'm better off only admiring women I can actually put my hands on. Keeps my brain healthy.
yeah , so basically the only way forward is either to date under or the same smv , or improve your smvI feel you on that. I rank all women, celebrity or not as a means of staying objective about the market. In many ways it has the same effect. I’m no 9 of 10, so expecting to bag one only leads to discouragement. And as OP said, even a male who is a 10 would be better served seriously dating a lesser woman.
I get maximum compliance and the most sex from 6s. The 8s I’ve been on dates with I was always a back up option for them. They were aloof, flaky, or just complained about date choices. 7s were somewhere in between. That puts me somewhere in the 7-8 range
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Correct. Most of our women problems can be solved by picking better women.. ones that like you a lot from the jump. Can’t make wine out of sour grapes. This is straight out of anti-dumps playbook; we’re just quantifying it by SMV. If you want hotties HB8+ to submit, you better stack money and get as close to 10 as you can. And be ready to spend money on them... is it worth it?it is better to put that energy into increasing your smv , so you will not have to move mountains to access the more attractive women
Correct. Most of our women problems can be solved by picking better women.. ones that like you a lot from the jump. Can’t make wine out of sour grapes. This is straight out of anti-dumps playbook; we’re just quantifying it by SMV. If you want hotties HB8+ to submit, you better stack money and get as close to 10 as you can. And be ready to spend money on them... is it worth it?
THIS. I got to imagine when you get to that level you don’t give a fvck about women or divorce. You’ll just make more money.If you reach that level it is worth it , as more or less women will be a side effect of what is happening in your life , and not the focus
Not true.Can’t make wine out of sour grapes.
Women do not care about the money per se , but more about the lifestyle that comes with them . It is a differenceTHIS. I got to imagine when you get to that level you don’t give a fvck about women or divorce. You’ll just make more money.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.