drixsa
Master Don Juan
jesus christ this is long i gotta go take a nap before i can finish all this
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
My system
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Attitude aside (bear with me, I am an effiminated whitey
), good stuff, Player_Supreme, though a bit long. As for reading signals, do you take a notebook with you when you go out? Seems impossible to me to remember all those differing signals, though I reckon it is enough to get the general idea of it.
), good stuff, Player_Supreme, though a bit long. As for reading signals, do you take a notebook with you when you go out? Seems impossible to me to remember all those differing signals, though I reckon it is enough to get the general idea of it.very nice summery of the basic skills.
after reading your comments in the flaming-thread started by a$$-sniffer, i thought you was some black-a$$ idiot insulting others who weren`t agreeing with your opinions.
keep on posting nice posts like this one, and don`t overeact to others`opinions
after reading your comments in the flaming-thread started by a$$-sniffer, i thought you was some black-a$$ idiot insulting others who weren`t agreeing with your opinions.
keep on posting nice posts like this one, and don`t overeact to others`opinions
Player_Supreme
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Notebook not needed. It takes time to train yourself to keep your mind awake and alert!Originally posted by B9
Attitude aside (bear with me, I am an effiminated whitey
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Player_Supreme
Banned
1 question. Are you black?
johnmich
Senior Don Juan
This post is great and all the comments after have been stupid questions about whether the posters are black or white. How does that fit in with seduction?
This is some hot **** right here. Let me tell you fellas, I been on this site, what almost 4 years now and this is the stuff that I have arrived to on my own in this due time. Like the whole "Act like you got 10 other girls waiting for your call" and test the *****es' game is exactly what I have been finally writing down in my notes after hours of tweaking ****.
Honestly, once you get the confidence to pull this **** off, you will arrive to the exactly same conclusion. It is like - you don't see the game until you are the right level. And once you get there - you look at posts like these and say "Damn why didn't I read em long time ago?" Well, you did read em, you just couldn't fathom actually doing **** like this.
Example: I am at the house with three hot broads. One is cool, two are new girls. So one of the hot girls is trying to test my game and is being sarcastic like a mother****er. I ask her what her major entails and she gives me some bull**** 2nd grader answer. So I think about it - man, I have all these hoes lines up, why would I let this ***** talk to me like this?
And this is exactly what i said:
"Well, I thought it was interesting, but if you are going to be an a$$hole, I am not going to talk to you...see ya"
***** melted down right away and was nice the rest of the night. Remember fellas - no matter how "strong" this hoe is, they are so insecure deep inside that you can break most hoes with 1 or two sentences. I remember one girl I called "a dork" playfully and she got all flustered because she thought it was offensive.
So don't let me BS you, and sell you their contracts. Don't buy into their "play nice" **** because girls dont know any better. honestly, there are very few girls who actually know what they want from their guy... I mean very few who would SHOW the guy how they want it and that they actually want him - the rest been conditioned to just "be nice. be social" same old bullsh1t.
Get to the next level fellas.
Honestly, once you get the confidence to pull this **** off, you will arrive to the exactly same conclusion. It is like - you don't see the game until you are the right level. And once you get there - you look at posts like these and say "Damn why didn't I read em long time ago?" Well, you did read em, you just couldn't fathom actually doing **** like this.
Example: I am at the house with three hot broads. One is cool, two are new girls. So one of the hot girls is trying to test my game and is being sarcastic like a mother****er. I ask her what her major entails and she gives me some bull**** 2nd grader answer. So I think about it - man, I have all these hoes lines up, why would I let this ***** talk to me like this?
And this is exactly what i said:
"Well, I thought it was interesting, but if you are going to be an a$$hole, I am not going to talk to you...see ya"
***** melted down right away and was nice the rest of the night. Remember fellas - no matter how "strong" this hoe is, they are so insecure deep inside that you can break most hoes with 1 or two sentences. I remember one girl I called "a dork" playfully and she got all flustered because she thought it was offensive.
So don't let me BS you, and sell you their contracts. Don't buy into their "play nice" **** because girls dont know any better. honestly, there are very few girls who actually know what they want from their guy... I mean very few who would SHOW the guy how they want it and that they actually want him - the rest been conditioned to just "be nice. be social" same old bullsh1t.
Get to the next level fellas.
Zerotwoonenine
Senior Don Juan
this man is a top pimp, he knows his stuff like i do.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
pimpin IS easy
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original poster was banned?
HAHA
yet useless posters who contribute nothing seem to run rampant without banning.
HAHA
yet useless posters who contribute nothing seem to run rampant without banning.
KneghtRyder
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pimpin IS easy said:
this guy shouldn't have been banned ( not doing the moderators job by telling them to unbann him) but
he clearly contributed a lot more to this forum than the 95 % of people who aren't banned. Funny guy too.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
he borke the forum rules.....and nobody is above the rules (except maybe Allen.
Fortunate_Juan
Senior Don Juan
This guy's on his ****, these kinds of posts are exactly what I was talking about in my recent post. We need a whole lot more cut dry and fuc*in simple "this is how this shi7 plays out". We need a whole lot less;
Does she like me
What do I tell her in a breakup
How much tuna have you snagged
or
This tip sounds good but for ______ reason I cant/wont do it
*on a side note I HATE reading that, you've already set yourself up for failure if you go "i can't". Gj for defeating yourself before the referee starts the race. A better thing to say is "I will do this from now on" the best thing to say is I am doing that.
Does she like me
What do I tell her in a breakup
How much tuna have you snagged
or
This tip sounds good but for ______ reason I cant/wont do it
*on a side note I HATE reading that, you've already set yourself up for failure if you go "i can't". Gj for defeating yourself before the referee starts the race. A better thing to say is "I will do this from now on" the best thing to say is I am doing that.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Derek Flint
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While I don't always like the way PS presented things, or argued with those that disagreed with him, most of his advice was/is spot on.