"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Attitude aside (bear with me, I am an effiminated whitey;) ), good stuff, Player_Supreme, though a bit long. As for reading signals, do you take a notebook with you when you go out? Seems impossible to me to remember all those differing signals, though I reckon it is enough to get the general idea of it.
 

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very nice summery of the basic skills.

after reading your comments in the flaming-thread started by a$$-sniffer, i thought you was some black-a$$ idiot insulting others who weren`t agreeing with your opinions.

keep on posting nice posts like this one, and don`t overeact to others`opinions
 
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Originally posted by B9
Attitude aside (bear with me, I am an effiminated whitey;) ), good stuff, Player_Supreme, though a bit long. As for reading signals, do you take a notebook with you when you go out? Seems impossible to me to remember all those differing signals, though I reckon it is enough to get the general idea of it.
Notebook not needed. It takes time to train yourself to keep your mind awake and alert!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Milez
very nice summery of the basic skills.

after reading your comments in the flaming-thread started by a$$-sniffer, i thought you was some black-a$$ idiot insulting others who weren`t agreeing with your opinions.

keep on posting nice posts like this one, and don`t overeact to others`opinions
1 question. Are you black?
 

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It's a great post and will be referred to for reference, very enlightened comments! Glad to have you in this discussion group (hope we can sarge together in this lifetime too!)
 

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This post is great and all the comments after have been stupid questions about whether the posters are black or white. How does that fit in with seduction?
 

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This is some hot **** right here. Let me tell you fellas, I been on this site, what almost 4 years now and this is the stuff that I have arrived to on my own in this due time. Like the whole "Act like you got 10 other girls waiting for your call" and test the *****es' game is exactly what I have been finally writing down in my notes after hours of tweaking ****.

Honestly, once you get the confidence to pull this **** off, you will arrive to the exactly same conclusion. It is like - you don't see the game until you are the right level. And once you get there - you look at posts like these and say "Damn why didn't I read em long time ago?" Well, you did read em, you just couldn't fathom actually doing **** like this.


Example: I am at the house with three hot broads. One is cool, two are new girls. So one of the hot girls is trying to test my game and is being sarcastic like a mother****er. I ask her what her major entails and she gives me some bull**** 2nd grader answer. So I think about it - man, I have all these hoes lines up, why would I let this ***** talk to me like this?

And this is exactly what i said:

"Well, I thought it was interesting, but if you are going to be an a$$hole, I am not going to talk to you...see ya"

***** melted down right away and was nice the rest of the night. Remember fellas - no matter how "strong" this hoe is, they are so insecure deep inside that you can break most hoes with 1 or two sentences. I remember one girl I called "a dork" playfully and she got all flustered because she thought it was offensive.

So don't let me BS you, and sell you their contracts. Don't buy into their "play nice" **** because girls dont know any better. honestly, there are very few girls who actually know what they want from their guy... I mean very few who would SHOW the guy how they want it and that they actually want him - the rest been conditioned to just "be nice. be social" same old bullsh1t.


Get to the next level fellas.
 

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this man is a top pimp, he knows his stuff like i do.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You can hate me now, but I wont stop now....
Cause I wont stop now, You can hate me now...

See ya at the top motha****ers
 
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original poster was banned?

HAHA

yet useless posters who contribute nothing seem to run rampant without banning.
 

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pimpin IS easy said:
original poster was banned?

HAHA

yet useless posters who contribute nothing seem to run rampant without banning.

this guy shouldn't have been banned ( not doing the moderators job by telling them to unbann him) but

he clearly contributed a lot more to this forum than the 95 % of people who aren't banned. Funny guy too.
 

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he borke the forum rules.....and nobody is above the rules (except maybe Allen.
 

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This guy's on his ****, these kinds of posts are exactly what I was talking about in my recent post. We need a whole lot more cut dry and fuc*in simple "this is how this shi7 plays out". We need a whole lot less;

Does she like me
What do I tell her in a breakup
How much tuna have you snagged

or
This tip sounds good but for ______ reason I cant/wont do it
*on a side note I HATE reading that, you've already set yourself up for failure if you go "i can't". Gj for defeating yourself before the referee starts the race. A better thing to say is "I will do this from now on" the best thing to say is I am doing that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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While I don't always like the way PS presented things, or argued with those that disagreed with him, most of his advice was/is spot on.
 
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