drixsa
Master Don Juan
jesus christ this is long i gotta go take a nap before i can finish all this
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
My system
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Attitude aside (bear with me, I am an effiminated whitey
), good stuff, Player_Supreme, though a bit long. As for reading signals, do you take a notebook with you when you go out? Seems impossible to me to remember all those differing signals, though I reckon it is enough to get the general idea of it.
), good stuff, Player_Supreme, though a bit long. As for reading signals, do you take a notebook with you when you go out? Seems impossible to me to remember all those differing signals, though I reckon it is enough to get the general idea of it.very nice summery of the basic skills.
after reading your comments in the flaming-thread started by a$$-sniffer, i thought you was some black-a$$ idiot insulting others who weren`t agreeing with your opinions.
keep on posting nice posts like this one, and don`t overeact to others`opinions
after reading your comments in the flaming-thread started by a$$-sniffer, i thought you was some black-a$$ idiot insulting others who weren`t agreeing with your opinions.
keep on posting nice posts like this one, and don`t overeact to others`opinions
Player_Supreme
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Notebook not needed. It takes time to train yourself to keep your mind awake and alert!Originally posted by B9
Attitude aside (bear with me, I am an effiminated whitey
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Player_Supreme
Banned
1 question. Are you black?
johnmich
Senior Don Juan
This post is great and all the comments after have been stupid questions about whether the posters are black or white. How does that fit in with seduction?
This is some hot **** right here. Let me tell you fellas, I been on this site, what almost 4 years now and this is the stuff that I have arrived to on my own in this due time. Like the whole "Act like you got 10 other girls waiting for your call" and test the *****es' game is exactly what I have been finally writing down in my notes after hours of tweaking ****.
Honestly, once you get the confidence to pull this **** off, you will arrive to the exactly same conclusion. It is like - you don't see the game until you are the right level. And once you get there - you look at posts like these and say "Damn why didn't I read em long time ago?" Well, you did read em, you just couldn't fathom actually doing **** like this.
Example: I am at the house with three hot broads. One is cool, two are new girls. So one of the hot girls is trying to test my game and is being sarcastic like a mother****er. I ask her what her major entails and she gives me some bull**** 2nd grader answer. So I think about it - man, I have all these hoes lines up, why would I let this ***** talk to me like this?
And this is exactly what i said:
"Well, I thought it was interesting, but if you are going to be an a$$hole, I am not going to talk to you...see ya"
***** melted down right away and was nice the rest of the night. Remember fellas - no matter how "strong" this hoe is, they are so insecure deep inside that you can break most hoes with 1 or two sentences. I remember one girl I called "a dork" playfully and she got all flustered because she thought it was offensive.
So don't let me BS you, and sell you their contracts. Don't buy into their "play nice" **** because girls dont know any better. honestly, there are very few girls who actually know what they want from their guy... I mean very few who would SHOW the guy how they want it and that they actually want him - the rest been conditioned to just "be nice. be social" same old bullsh1t.
Get to the next level fellas.
Honestly, once you get the confidence to pull this **** off, you will arrive to the exactly same conclusion. It is like - you don't see the game until you are the right level. And once you get there - you look at posts like these and say "Damn why didn't I read em long time ago?" Well, you did read em, you just couldn't fathom actually doing **** like this.
Example: I am at the house with three hot broads. One is cool, two are new girls. So one of the hot girls is trying to test my game and is being sarcastic like a mother****er. I ask her what her major entails and she gives me some bull**** 2nd grader answer. So I think about it - man, I have all these hoes lines up, why would I let this ***** talk to me like this?
And this is exactly what i said:
"Well, I thought it was interesting, but if you are going to be an a$$hole, I am not going to talk to you...see ya"
***** melted down right away and was nice the rest of the night. Remember fellas - no matter how "strong" this hoe is, they are so insecure deep inside that you can break most hoes with 1 or two sentences. I remember one girl I called "a dork" playfully and she got all flustered because she thought it was offensive.
So don't let me BS you, and sell you their contracts. Don't buy into their "play nice" **** because girls dont know any better. honestly, there are very few girls who actually know what they want from their guy... I mean very few who would SHOW the guy how they want it and that they actually want him - the rest been conditioned to just "be nice. be social" same old bullsh1t.
Get to the next level fellas.
Zerotwoonenine
Senior Don Juan
this man is a top pimp, he knows his stuff like i do.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
pimpin IS easy
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original poster was banned?
HAHA
yet useless posters who contribute nothing seem to run rampant without banning.
HAHA
yet useless posters who contribute nothing seem to run rampant without banning.
KneghtRyder
Senior Don Juan
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pimpin IS easy said:
this guy shouldn't have been banned ( not doing the moderators job by telling them to unbann him) but
he clearly contributed a lot more to this forum than the 95 % of people who aren't banned. Funny guy too.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
he borke the forum rules.....and nobody is above the rules (except maybe Allen.
Fortunate_Juan
Senior Don Juan
This guy's on his ****, these kinds of posts are exactly what I was talking about in my recent post. We need a whole lot more cut dry and fuc*in simple "this is how this shi7 plays out". We need a whole lot less;
Does she like me
What do I tell her in a breakup
How much tuna have you snagged
or
This tip sounds good but for ______ reason I cant/wont do it
*on a side note I HATE reading that, you've already set yourself up for failure if you go "i can't". Gj for defeating yourself before the referee starts the race. A better thing to say is "I will do this from now on" the best thing to say is I am doing that.
Does she like me
What do I tell her in a breakup
How much tuna have you snagged
or
This tip sounds good but for ______ reason I cant/wont do it
*on a side note I HATE reading that, you've already set yourself up for failure if you go "i can't". Gj for defeating yourself before the referee starts the race. A better thing to say is "I will do this from now on" the best thing to say is I am doing that.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Derek Flint
Master Don Juan
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While I don't always like the way PS presented things, or argued with those that disagreed with him, most of his advice was/is spot on.