"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My Situation...

Anaya07

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Alright this is my first post even though I've been looking around the forums for some time now. Ok so im posting to talk about where I'm at and to take some advice.
So my first period is basketball and we're usually in the gym with all of the other P.E. classes and up until now i havent really tried to talk to any of the girls in there. Well today, this group of people were tossin around a volleyball and it kept getting in the way of our game. So after about he 20th time of having to stop to pick up their volleyball, i noticed this pretty cute freshman standing with them. She walked up to me to get the volleyball back and i said (in a kinda sarcastic tone) "if you keep messing up our game, then we're gonna have some problems." while smiling the whole time. She grabbed the ball from me with a smile from ear to ear. After that i kinda stopped paying attention to them and finished up my game. Before i walked out the gym i air balled a shot and she said
"nice" sarcastically w/ a smile and walked away.

Anyway at this point i could tell she was interested despite me not really doing anything. Later that day i saw her walking down the hall and i flashed her a smile and she returned the favor.

She seems like a really cool girl and I'd like to know what you guys think i should do in this kind of situation.

Sorry about the long post but I'd really appreciate the help from you more experienced DJs.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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navyseal2101

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Sounds like you did a very good job congrats! Make a move but don't show too much attention, get to know her a little better then "ask her out" (Just tell her whats going to happen and to give you her number so you can tell her when). You seem to have the right stuff already so good luck with this one.
 

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just mentioning that i(Anaya07) changed my name to BJJkid. Still need help with this girl and i'm basically taking any advice i can get.
 

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the thing is that I've never really had a conversation with her. what do you recommend i say to approach her the next time i see her??? it'll probably be in the gym again so any suggestions??
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just start off the conversation like you would with a friend you have not seen in a while. "Hey, do you remember me? You're the girl I met at so and so on so and so, right."
If you say this 2-3 days after you meet her, chances are she will remember you. If she does not remember you, you didn't make a good first impression on her. Once she says yes, proceed to starting a conversation with her and develop rapport by keeping conversation very interesting. Than do Wolf's method for getting her number.. and you are in!

Worse comes to worse, if she says "no", you can always backfire with a ****y+funny comment such as: "Well, you will remember me after today." ;)

It's a win-win situation either way, try it out and let us know how it goes!
 
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