Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

My Situation...

Anaya07

New Member
Joined
Oct 30, 2007
Messages
1
Reaction score
0
Alright this is my first post even though I've been looking around the forums for some time now. Ok so im posting to talk about where I'm at and to take some advice.
So my first period is basketball and we're usually in the gym with all of the other P.E. classes and up until now i havent really tried to talk to any of the girls in there. Well today, this group of people were tossin around a volleyball and it kept getting in the way of our game. So after about he 20th time of having to stop to pick up their volleyball, i noticed this pretty cute freshman standing with them. She walked up to me to get the volleyball back and i said (in a kinda sarcastic tone) "if you keep messing up our game, then we're gonna have some problems." while smiling the whole time. She grabbed the ball from me with a smile from ear to ear. After that i kinda stopped paying attention to them and finished up my game. Before i walked out the gym i air balled a shot and she said
"nice" sarcastically w/ a smile and walked away.

Anyway at this point i could tell she was interested despite me not really doing anything. Later that day i saw her walking down the hall and i flashed her a smile and she returned the favor.

She seems like a really cool girl and I'd like to know what you guys think i should do in this kind of situation.

Sorry about the long post but I'd really appreciate the help from you more experienced DJs.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

navyseal2101

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 25, 2007
Messages
554
Reaction score
0
Sounds like you did a very good job congrats! Make a move but don't show too much attention, get to know her a little better then "ask her out" (Just tell her whats going to happen and to give you her number so you can tell her when). You seem to have the right stuff already so good luck with this one.
 

BJJkid

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 30, 2007
Messages
14
Reaction score
0
Location
Broward, South Florida
just mentioning that i(Anaya07) changed my name to BJJkid. Still need help with this girl and i'm basically taking any advice i can get.
 

BJJkid

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 30, 2007
Messages
14
Reaction score
0
Location
Broward, South Florida
the thing is that I've never really had a conversation with her. what do you recommend i say to approach her the next time i see her??? it'll probably be in the gym again so any suggestions??
 
Last edited:

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Axcell

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 12, 2007
Messages
519
Reaction score
6
Just start off the conversation like you would with a friend you have not seen in a while. "Hey, do you remember me? You're the girl I met at so and so on so and so, right."
If you say this 2-3 days after you meet her, chances are she will remember you. If she does not remember you, you didn't make a good first impression on her. Once she says yes, proceed to starting a conversation with her and develop rapport by keeping conversation very interesting. Than do Wolf's method for getting her number.. and you are in!

Worse comes to worse, if she says "no", you can always backfire with a ****y+funny comment such as: "Well, you will remember me after today." ;)

It's a win-win situation either way, try it out and let us know how it goes!
 
Top