"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

My Secret!!! Shhh Blow Ur Mind :)

Prodigy746

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 18, 2007
Messages
696
Reaction score
14
You are good with me as long as you dont go out , buy coupla guns and start playing GTA4 early.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

DjSoOHain

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2008
Messages
43
Reaction score
0
Location
Unknown
complicated explenation but basically you just glorified what i just said which i thank you for... But anyways people try living life in this prospective... just dont do any stupid sht
 

wolf116

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 29, 2006
Messages
1,661
Reaction score
16
If you only had one life in GTA, it would be the most boring game ever.

You have to live with your consequences in real life, you can't restart.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

3countriesPlan

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 11, 2007
Messages
671
Reaction score
29
Location
Beijing/Seoul/Portland
Lately, I've been happier and my life has been fuller because I changed my mindset. I envisioned myself as a 85 year old man who had ONE more chance to live life according to how he wished he has lived it as a youth. I'm picking up more hobbies and meeting more people now because I view everything as my second and LAST chance. Nothing mindblowing, but it's helped me live more efficiently.
 

Groovy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 21, 2008
Messages
752
Reaction score
22
I do this ALL THE TIME! I even started discussing it with my friends and now we all joke around. :D Yo can you imagine if our lives were video games? YEah yeah, we'd start with the most basic character, john (LOL he«s a skinny guy who always looses EVERYTHING) who would loose all the money we got from out thefts... And then we would evolve to david, he's a little better but everyone would threathen him (HE has a neck for getting in trobule) :D

It's just for fun tho.

It does helps you put things in perspective... Like you were looking at yourself outside yourself. Helps you judge the situation better.
 

Aragon034

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 31, 2008
Messages
573
Reaction score
15
Location
T-dot
Wolf said:
Anyway why tell us this story, after all we aren't real...
He's been playing Fallout 3 and certain conversations give you extra XP.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Black suit

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 2, 2008
Messages
134
Reaction score
3
Good way of thinking. Just don't go try raising the STAR levels as in GTA!
 
Top