Prodigy746
Master Don Juan
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You are good with me as long as you dont go out , buy coupla guns and start playing GTA4 early.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
My Secret!!! Shhh Blow Ur Mind :)
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
LadiesMan2117
Don Juan
Wut... It's true man you can't respawn in real life... There aren't even any cheats to save you!DjSoOHain said:
3countriesPlan
Master Don Juan
Lately, I've been happier and my life has been fuller because I changed my mindset. I envisioned myself as a 85 year old man who had ONE more chance to live life according to how he wished he has lived it as a youth. I'm picking up more hobbies and meeting more people now because I view everything as my second and LAST chance. Nothing mindblowing, but it's helped me live more efficiently.
I do this ALL THE TIME! I even started discussing it with my friends and now we all joke around. 
Yo can you imagine if our lives were video games? YEah yeah, we'd start with the most basic character, john (LOL he«s a skinny guy who always looses EVERYTHING) who would loose all the money we got from out thefts... And then we would evolve to david, he's a little better but everyone would threathen him (HE has a neck for getting in trobule)
It's just for fun tho.
It does helps you put things in perspective... Like you were looking at yourself outside yourself. Helps you judge the situation better.
Yo can you imagine if our lives were video games? YEah yeah, we'd start with the most basic character, john (LOL he«s a skinny guy who always looses EVERYTHING) who would loose all the money we got from out thefts... And then we would evolve to david, he's a little better but everyone would threathen him (HE has a neck for getting in trobule) It's just for fun tho.
It does helps you put things in perspective... Like you were looking at yourself outside yourself. Helps you judge the situation better.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Good way of thinking. Just don't go try raising the STAR levels as in GTA!