"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TheGambino

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Women talk.

The female, dating community that goes out to clubs and parties is pretty small in ''state'' I live. A lot of girls know eachother and I find it that since I flirt and number close a lot of girls they are talking about me.

For example I had a great vibe with a girl last saturday and she shut down after her gf got mad at her for talking to me. They were heavily discussing me in the toilet I found out. A girl I know told me that randomly.

This is like the 4th time it happens to me and it didnt exactley lead to more dates with the girls.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheGambino said:
Women talk.

The female, dating community that goes out to clubs and parties is pretty small in ''state'' I live. A lot of girls know eachother and I find it that since I flirt and number close a lot of girls they are talking about me.

For example I had a great vibe with a girl last saturday and she shut down after her gf got mad at her for talking to me. They were heavily discussing me in the toilet I found out. A girl I know told me that randomly.

This is like the 4th time it happens to me and it didnt exactley lead to more dates with the girls.
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What is it about your reputation?
 
TheGambino

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That they like me, give out numbers, touch me, make out with me but stop contacting me after they hear that I talk to a lot of different girls.
 
sazc

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so what are you going to do about it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheGambino

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sazc said:
so what are you going to do about it?
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Nothing much, work out harder, focussing on my dreams, work and goals and keep dating until I find the girl I feel real affection for then try to settle.

Not really going to change anything, it is what it is.
 
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