"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheGambino

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Women talk.

The female, dating community that goes out to clubs and parties is pretty small in ''state'' I live. A lot of girls know eachother and I find it that since I flirt and number close a lot of girls they are talking about me.

For example I had a great vibe with a girl last saturday and she shut down after her gf got mad at her for talking to me. They were heavily discussing me in the toilet I found out. A girl I know told me that randomly.

This is like the 4th time it happens to me and it didnt exactley lead to more dates with the girls.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheGambino said:
Women talk.

The female, dating community that goes out to clubs and parties is pretty small in ''state'' I live. A lot of girls know eachother and I find it that since I flirt and number close a lot of girls they are talking about me.

For example I had a great vibe with a girl last saturday and she shut down after her gf got mad at her for talking to me. They were heavily discussing me in the toilet I found out. A girl I know told me that randomly.

This is like the 4th time it happens to me and it didnt exactley lead to more dates with the girls.
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What is it about your reputation?
 
TheGambino

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That they like me, give out numbers, touch me, make out with me but stop contacting me after they hear that I talk to a lot of different girls.
 
sazc

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so what are you going to do about it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheGambino

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sazc said:
so what are you going to do about it?
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Nothing much, work out harder, focussing on my dreams, work and goals and keep dating until I find the girl I feel real affection for then try to settle.

Not really going to change anything, it is what it is.
 
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