"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My reputation scrws me over

TheGambino

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Women talk.

The female, dating community that goes out to clubs and parties is pretty small in ''state'' I live. A lot of girls know eachother and I find it that since I flirt and number close a lot of girls they are talking about me.

For example I had a great vibe with a girl last saturday and she shut down after her gf got mad at her for talking to me. They were heavily discussing me in the toilet I found out. A girl I know told me that randomly.

This is like the 4th time it happens to me and it didnt exactley lead to more dates with the girls.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheGambino said:
Women talk.

The female, dating community that goes out to clubs and parties is pretty small in ''state'' I live. A lot of girls know eachother and I find it that since I flirt and number close a lot of girls they are talking about me.

For example I had a great vibe with a girl last saturday and she shut down after her gf got mad at her for talking to me. They were heavily discussing me in the toilet I found out. A girl I know told me that randomly.

This is like the 4th time it happens to me and it didnt exactley lead to more dates with the girls.
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What is it about your reputation?
 
TheGambino

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That they like me, give out numbers, touch me, make out with me but stop contacting me after they hear that I talk to a lot of different girls.
 
sazc

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so what are you going to do about it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheGambino

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sazc said:
so what are you going to do about it?
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Nothing much, work out harder, focussing on my dreams, work and goals and keep dating until I find the girl I feel real affection for then try to settle.

Not really going to change anything, it is what it is.
 
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