"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My Relationship's Sex Life Needs a Boost

Vikman

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My girlfriend spoke to be today. She's upset about our sex life and she wants things to improve. Most guys would have saw this as a bad thing, except I think it's a good thing because she could have chosen to dump me, but she feels a strong connection and wants to stay with me so I can improve.

What exactly needs to improve during- her satisfaction. Physically, she says that she's plenty satisfied. But she needs emotional satisfaction during sex as well. She wants more passion during sex, but she wouldn't describe any specific details about passion.

How can we improve the sex in our relationship? What can we do about the passion during sex?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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prairiedog24

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There was an excellent thread on this floating around. I'll try to find it but I don't remember the title. If I don't post back PM IGETIT or one of the pro's and I'm sure they'll remember.
 

Deadly_Ripped

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It's called the Sex God Method and if you look hard enough, you can find a free copy downloadable as a PDF.

It's an amazing guide that gives you relatively broad ideas and concepts that you can give own style as you begin to employ them.

It's like 240 pages, but it's well worth the read and very well written/easy to read.

Anecdotal evidence: this book helped me personally recognize where I had strengths and weaknesses in the bedroom, and as such I've recently been able to create experiences with women that practically shock them because it's so incredible.
 

Ridingthelightning

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Do you get rough? I find women misinterpret getting pounded as passion. Don't be a stiff cardboard, be loose and fluid, and you push the action into the direction you want it to go. Change things up. LEARN FELLATIO.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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