"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My Relationship's Sex Life Needs a Boost

Vikman

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My girlfriend spoke to be today. She's upset about our sex life and she wants things to improve. Most guys would have saw this as a bad thing, except I think it's a good thing because she could have chosen to dump me, but she feels a strong connection and wants to stay with me so I can improve.

What exactly needs to improve during- her satisfaction. Physically, she says that she's plenty satisfied. But she needs emotional satisfaction during sex as well. She wants more passion during sex, but she wouldn't describe any specific details about passion.

How can we improve the sex in our relationship? What can we do about the passion during sex?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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prairiedog24

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There was an excellent thread on this floating around. I'll try to find it but I don't remember the title. If I don't post back PM IGETIT or one of the pro's and I'm sure they'll remember.
 

Deadly_Ripped

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It's called the Sex God Method and if you look hard enough, you can find a free copy downloadable as a PDF.

It's an amazing guide that gives you relatively broad ideas and concepts that you can give own style as you begin to employ them.

It's like 240 pages, but it's well worth the read and very well written/easy to read.

Anecdotal evidence: this book helped me personally recognize where I had strengths and weaknesses in the bedroom, and as such I've recently been able to create experiences with women that practically shock them because it's so incredible.
 

Ridingthelightning

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Do you get rough? I find women misinterpret getting pounded as passion. Don't be a stiff cardboard, be loose and fluid, and you push the action into the direction you want it to go. Change things up. LEARN FELLATIO.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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