"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My Relationship's Sex Life Needs a Boost

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Vikman

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My girlfriend spoke to be today. She's upset about our sex life and she wants things to improve. Most guys would have saw this as a bad thing, except I think it's a good thing because she could have chosen to dump me, but she feels a strong connection and wants to stay with me so I can improve.

What exactly needs to improve during- her satisfaction. Physically, she says that she's plenty satisfied. But she needs emotional satisfaction during sex as well. She wants more passion during sex, but she wouldn't describe any specific details about passion.

How can we improve the sex in our relationship? What can we do about the passion during sex?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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prairiedog24

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There was an excellent thread on this floating around. I'll try to find it but I don't remember the title. If I don't post back PM IGETIT or one of the pro's and I'm sure they'll remember.
 
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Deadly_Ripped

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It's called the Sex God Method and if you look hard enough, you can find a free copy downloadable as a PDF.

It's an amazing guide that gives you relatively broad ideas and concepts that you can give own style as you begin to employ them.

It's like 240 pages, but it's well worth the read and very well written/easy to read.

Anecdotal evidence: this book helped me personally recognize where I had strengths and weaknesses in the bedroom, and as such I've recently been able to create experiences with women that practically shock them because it's so incredible.
 
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Ridingthelightning

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Do you get rough? I find women misinterpret getting pounded as passion. Don't be a stiff cardboard, be loose and fluid, and you push the action into the direction you want it to go. Change things up. LEARN FELLATIO.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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