I was at a lecture theatre recently at night(night classes are quite common here, going to study in school at night) and I noticed this girl sitting some rows in front of me
I was reluctant at first but I eventually approached her. My aim was just to make some small talk and get her number. I opened with asking if she was in second year and the conversation went on quite deep for a stranger.
But the surprising thing was when I asked for her contact and handed over my phone, she fiddled with it for some seconds and then asked what she was going to get if she gave me her contact. She was like am I going to get some money or something in kind in a playful tone
I was totally caught off guard and I replied something along the lines of we'll talk and meet up again while adding that I've never been asked that before. At that point, I was thinking she's shallow but she eventually said she was making a joke
After typing in her contact, she proceeds to ask if I would give my number out to any girl that walks up to me to ask.
I said yes. She continued to press by saying what if I didn't find her attractive and I'm like I'll give it out at least because she was confident.
Then spontaneously, she asked so you don't play hard to get. I replied something like not really. I asked if she does and she gives this small admitting smile
The conversation went on for like 20 minutes in total, we talked about a lot of things (the COVID19 break, hobbies, books, school, movies, likes and dislikes etc) though she did more of the questioning. I had to end our talk cos I wanted to get to my books and leave when things were still fun
The conversation we had was quite deep. Around the start of the convo, she asked what I was studying. I told her I was a medic. I guess maybe that helped but she seemed truly interested.
I have texted her on WhatsApp and will ask her out on a date in a few weeks after tests and exams.
Replaying the conversation in my head makes me feel like those questions were **** tests?
What's your opinion about the interaction? What should I take note of / improve on
I was reluctant at first but I eventually approached her. My aim was just to make some small talk and get her number. I opened with asking if she was in second year and the conversation went on quite deep for a stranger.
But the surprising thing was when I asked for her contact and handed over my phone, she fiddled with it for some seconds and then asked what she was going to get if she gave me her contact. She was like am I going to get some money or something in kind in a playful tone
I was totally caught off guard and I replied something along the lines of we'll talk and meet up again while adding that I've never been asked that before. At that point, I was thinking she's shallow but she eventually said she was making a joke
After typing in her contact, she proceeds to ask if I would give my number out to any girl that walks up to me to ask.
I said yes. She continued to press by saying what if I didn't find her attractive and I'm like I'll give it out at least because she was confident.
Then spontaneously, she asked so you don't play hard to get. I replied something like not really. I asked if she does and she gives this small admitting smile
The conversation went on for like 20 minutes in total, we talked about a lot of things (the COVID19 break, hobbies, books, school, movies, likes and dislikes etc) though she did more of the questioning. I had to end our talk cos I wanted to get to my books and leave when things were still fun
The conversation we had was quite deep. Around the start of the convo, she asked what I was studying. I told her I was a medic. I guess maybe that helped but she seemed truly interested.
I have texted her on WhatsApp and will ask her out on a date in a few weeks after tests and exams.
Replaying the conversation in my head makes me feel like those questions were **** tests?
What's your opinion about the interaction? What should I take note of / improve on