I know there has been a lot of posts about this.. But I honestly need some advice on how to stop being a nice guy not only just for chicks but life in general I'm the type of guy to fight for people without question yet people don't do the same for me being nice has basically ruined my life I'm getting better at becoming assertive but I'm still not happy about my progress...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
My problem..
- Thread starter DB12
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
Don't be afraid of hurting people's feelings. If you don't want to do something (ie nice things) for people, don't do them.
If you have a divergent opinion to whatever bullsht a girl is speaking, don't be afraid to speak up.
Don't buy random girls drinks, don't agree to hold their purse or drink while they go off somewhere, set some life rules or principles and stick to them.
If you have a divergent opinion to whatever bullsht a girl is speaking, don't be afraid to speak up.
Don't buy random girls drinks, don't agree to hold their purse or drink while they go off somewhere, set some life rules or principles and stick to them.
moneyisking
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lift weights, that's the best advice I can give you online. Then progressively, continue to learn and apply yourself to stop being nice; don't be a d!ck, but don't be nice b/c people don't deserve you man. I was a total pvssy all the way to highschool, then starting college, things changed after lifting weights and becoming stronger. Now I confront people if they disrespect me in any smallest ways men and women although people rarely do that b/c usually those who will not tolerate disrespect give off that vibe. Then you start to become little ****y and add in some humor there and start busting people. I am at that stage and those alone don't get you laid but def better than being nice pushover. Gota work on some kino and being more confident. good luck