"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My problem

Waking Up

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I'm 6'0 140 lbs

I believe, is that I'm too skinny. Yeah I know there's been hundreds of threads on this subject before, outer game vs inner game, Pook's skinny guy thread and testosterone discussions. But I'm beginning to realize that my personality is decent, I'm not the most confident man in the world but I'm humorous and I have a decent personality in terms of wit and such. But I'm thin, 6'0 140 lbs and although I've been working out for a couple of months, it's very slow progress. I've also got a somewhat feminine look to me. But hey that's what genetics delt me, I just want to maximize my ability to attract as much as I can.

Here's some pics:

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...dID=13708271&albumID=2609514&imageID=57307409
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...dID=13708271&albumID=2478350&imageID=53137969
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...dID=13708271&albumID=2478350&imageID=56990564

I have a feminine look about me. And I'm beginning to realize this why it's so hard for me to attract females. I've gotten laid several times, yes, about eight, but it always feels like I have to try harder than others do. Is there a way I can make myself more masculine (I've got a deep voice.) I'll continue working out and trying to gain weight and such. But ack. Forum opinions?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thanks. Good to know I'm not "fugly."

I was honestly insecure about this for quite some time.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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macallik

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if you want gains, go to the health and fitness forum and follow the guidelines to a tee. They won't lead you astray and most of those guys are some the most dedicated and supportive guys on the website. Off the bat I'd say you aren't getting enough calories and protein. I wasn't getting any results for years til I tried the H&F forum and started eating a LOT more and then I started seeing results until I stopped.

Smh @ being insecure, you look like the guy from all the Seth Rogen movies, Jay Baruchel, especially in the 1st and 3rd pic.

work on your inner-confidence sommore as well I'd say
 

Splendidostring

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lol .....sure getting bigger will help boost your confidence yet you won't become any better with woman.

If you want to get woman you got to go where they ARE. What I did was simply as tons of people do. GO toward woman, ask for their number, get rejected. If you fail, keep on doing it. Do it until you know you're getting better but then again keep on doing it. Getting woman is a state of mind, work on it. Drop the muscles, you don't really need it.
 

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Any recommended threads for bulking up that other members used and had a lot of success with?
 
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