"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My problem

Waking Up

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I'm 6'0 140 lbs

I believe, is that I'm too skinny. Yeah I know there's been hundreds of threads on this subject before, outer game vs inner game, Pook's skinny guy thread and testosterone discussions. But I'm beginning to realize that my personality is decent, I'm not the most confident man in the world but I'm humorous and I have a decent personality in terms of wit and such. But I'm thin, 6'0 140 lbs and although I've been working out for a couple of months, it's very slow progress. I've also got a somewhat feminine look to me. But hey that's what genetics delt me, I just want to maximize my ability to attract as much as I can.

Here's some pics:

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...dID=13708271&albumID=2609514&imageID=57307409
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...dID=13708271&albumID=2478350&imageID=53137969
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...dID=13708271&albumID=2478350&imageID=56990564

I have a feminine look about me. And I'm beginning to realize this why it's so hard for me to attract females. I've gotten laid several times, yes, about eight, but it always feels like I have to try harder than others do. Is there a way I can make myself more masculine (I've got a deep voice.) I'll continue working out and trying to gain weight and such. But ack. Forum opinions?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Waking Up

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Thanks. Good to know I'm not "fugly."

I was honestly insecure about this for quite some time.

rofl
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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macallik

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if you want gains, go to the health and fitness forum and follow the guidelines to a tee. They won't lead you astray and most of those guys are some the most dedicated and supportive guys on the website. Off the bat I'd say you aren't getting enough calories and protein. I wasn't getting any results for years til I tried the H&F forum and started eating a LOT more and then I started seeing results until I stopped.

Smh @ being insecure, you look like the guy from all the Seth Rogen movies, Jay Baruchel, especially in the 1st and 3rd pic.

work on your inner-confidence sommore as well I'd say
 

Splendidostring

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lol .....sure getting bigger will help boost your confidence yet you won't become any better with woman.

If you want to get woman you got to go where they ARE. What I did was simply as tons of people do. GO toward woman, ask for their number, get rejected. If you fail, keep on doing it. Do it until you know you're getting better but then again keep on doing it. Getting woman is a state of mind, work on it. Drop the muscles, you don't really need it.
 

Waking Up

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Any recommended threads for bulking up that other members used and had a lot of success with?
 
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