Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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My problem

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I'm 6'0 140 lbs

I believe, is that I'm too skinny. Yeah I know there's been hundreds of threads on this subject before, outer game vs inner game, Pook's skinny guy thread and testosterone discussions. But I'm beginning to realize that my personality is decent, I'm not the most confident man in the world but I'm humorous and I have a decent personality in terms of wit and such. But I'm thin, 6'0 140 lbs and although I've been working out for a couple of months, it's very slow progress. I've also got a somewhat feminine look to me. But hey that's what genetics delt me, I just want to maximize my ability to attract as much as I can.

Here's some pics:

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...dID=13708271&albumID=2609514&imageID=57307409
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...dID=13708271&albumID=2478350&imageID=53137969
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...dID=13708271&albumID=2478350&imageID=56990564

I have a feminine look about me. And I'm beginning to realize this why it's so hard for me to attract females. I've gotten laid several times, yes, about eight, but it always feels like I have to try harder than others do. Is there a way I can make myself more masculine (I've got a deep voice.) I'll continue working out and trying to gain weight and such. But ack. Forum opinions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Thanks. Good to know I'm not "fugly."

I was honestly insecure about this for quite some time.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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macallik

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if you want gains, go to the health and fitness forum and follow the guidelines to a tee. They won't lead you astray and most of those guys are some the most dedicated and supportive guys on the website. Off the bat I'd say you aren't getting enough calories and protein. I wasn't getting any results for years til I tried the H&F forum and started eating a LOT more and then I started seeing results until I stopped.

Smh @ being insecure, you look like the guy from all the Seth Rogen movies, Jay Baruchel, especially in the 1st and 3rd pic.

work on your inner-confidence sommore as well I'd say
 

Splendidostring

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lol .....sure getting bigger will help boost your confidence yet you won't become any better with woman.

If you want to get woman you got to go where they ARE. What I did was simply as tons of people do. GO toward woman, ask for their number, get rejected. If you fail, keep on doing it. Do it until you know you're getting better but then again keep on doing it. Getting woman is a state of mind, work on it. Drop the muscles, you don't really need it.
 

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Any recommended threads for bulking up that other members used and had a lot of success with?
 
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