I'm 24.
I'd love to get good at daytime. I'm at university, but I don't hang out there - just go to classes and then off to work. I have started quite a few conversations with chicks in my classes, but I don't really class these as approaches cos I never intended to ask them out -- I just felt like meeting them.
To reiterate: to me an "approach" is going up to her, opening her with whatever, and asking an "at risk" type question -- number, date, instadate etc. Or, at a slightly lower level, but still "riskier" is opening her with, or making very soon after an opening, an unambiguously sexual comment/compliment -- of course, such a comment tends to naturally lead to asking her out, but in just case you don't, I would stil class an approach that includes a comment like this an "approach", albeit a slightly lesser one.
to explain it further, the reason I don't class the conversations I have at uni with chicks as "approaches", even when I do in fact open them is that it's just such a low risk environment and it's EASY to just get talking and laughin. But I can do that all day and never actually RISK anything (which is, in fact, what happens), so to me it's not a REAL approach.
(I don't drink, btw, well, maybe one or two, but I'm never walking the streets "drunk".)
At the moment, daytime just seems really awkward to me. Some days, I feel really good, confident and pumped up, and I feel "on the verge" of busting out some his and how's it goings, but at that "crunch" moment I back out. For now, anyway.
As I mentioned in the last post though, I'm feeling much improved over how I was even two weeks ago. It might seem silly to call this "improvement", but that's only if you take a black/white view. I'm still not approaching, so in this sense there's no improvement. However, in my mind, the way i FEEL about the idea, I am WAY "closer" to it than a couple of months ago. The thought of it feels a lot more "normal" to me now. A few months ago, the idea seemed almost "fantastic", like who ARE these people that go around doing this stuff?? Today, it's not like that at all.
However, to be honest, I'm actulaly more interested in 'night game'. If I had a choice of which one I could excel at, I'd pick night any day. (Lol) People make the point that chicks have their "defences" up in night game, but I'm pretty confident that I'm a kinda guy they'd like to meet, so that aspect of it doesn't really bother me.
I'd love to get good at daytime. I'm at university, but I don't hang out there - just go to classes and then off to work. I have started quite a few conversations with chicks in my classes, but I don't really class these as approaches cos I never intended to ask them out -- I just felt like meeting them.
To reiterate: to me an "approach" is going up to her, opening her with whatever, and asking an "at risk" type question -- number, date, instadate etc. Or, at a slightly lower level, but still "riskier" is opening her with, or making very soon after an opening, an unambiguously sexual comment/compliment -- of course, such a comment tends to naturally lead to asking her out, but in just case you don't, I would stil class an approach that includes a comment like this an "approach", albeit a slightly lesser one.
to explain it further, the reason I don't class the conversations I have at uni with chicks as "approaches", even when I do in fact open them is that it's just such a low risk environment and it's EASY to just get talking and laughin. But I can do that all day and never actually RISK anything (which is, in fact, what happens), so to me it's not a REAL approach.
(I don't drink, btw, well, maybe one or two, but I'm never walking the streets "drunk".)
At the moment, daytime just seems really awkward to me. Some days, I feel really good, confident and pumped up, and I feel "on the verge" of busting out some his and how's it goings, but at that "crunch" moment I back out. For now, anyway.
As I mentioned in the last post though, I'm feeling much improved over how I was even two weeks ago. It might seem silly to call this "improvement", but that's only if you take a black/white view. I'm still not approaching, so in this sense there's no improvement. However, in my mind, the way i FEEL about the idea, I am WAY "closer" to it than a couple of months ago. The thought of it feels a lot more "normal" to me now. A few months ago, the idea seemed almost "fantastic", like who ARE these people that go around doing this stuff?? Today, it's not like that at all.
However, to be honest, I'm actulaly more interested in 'night game'. If I had a choice of which one I could excel at, I'd pick night any day. (Lol) People make the point that chicks have their "defences" up in night game, but I'm pretty confident that I'm a kinda guy they'd like to meet, so that aspect of it doesn't really bother me.