Check out my threads "Good Girls Don't Exist", and "Regaining Power in a Relationship" for some more background information.
Summary:
Hooked up with chick last summer. She went to college. We stayed together. Broke up about 3 months into it. She comes back for Christmas Break, we **** and she likes me again (calls me all the time, tells me, etc.).
She leaves for college again, calls me all the time. Annoys me and I tell her I want a communication break (this is where things start going downhill). She agrees after I give her a bull**** excuse. I call her a few days later, but she won't just take my call instead she makes a big scene out of it. I kind of say "**** her" for a while, I'm a little confused as to what she wants. I try multiple times to find out if she is interested in a relationship or what her deal is. She makes excuses to not talk about it, etc. Again I kind of move on, and last Friday for my B-day I made out with two of her good friends (at the same time I mind you
) and almost end up banging a total stranger.
Ex finds out about this is and is extremely pissed off with me and her friends. I can't understand why so I try a couple times to find out (we weren't going out). She keeps telling me she needs time not talking to me, and she NEEDS to move on in life but she still HASN'T. Finally she tells me why she's mad, I apologize stating I thought we didn't agree to anything, but I'm sorry that I upset her so badly. I told her I still care about her.
Anywho, I havn't talked in any form to her since last Sunday. I'm getting a bit annoyed with her. I don't know what she needs time for. I'm thinking I should just text her saying, "hey I'll give you more time alone, I'm done for good". I still like her, and I have other plates going so it's not like I'm obsessing about her but I'm getting sick of waiting around for this broad.
Summary:
Hooked up with chick last summer. She went to college. We stayed together. Broke up about 3 months into it. She comes back for Christmas Break, we **** and she likes me again (calls me all the time, tells me, etc.).
She leaves for college again, calls me all the time. Annoys me and I tell her I want a communication break (this is where things start going downhill). She agrees after I give her a bull**** excuse. I call her a few days later, but she won't just take my call instead she makes a big scene out of it. I kind of say "**** her" for a while, I'm a little confused as to what she wants. I try multiple times to find out if she is interested in a relationship or what her deal is. She makes excuses to not talk about it, etc. Again I kind of move on, and last Friday for my B-day I made out with two of her good friends (at the same time I mind you
) and almost end up banging a total stranger.Ex finds out about this is and is extremely pissed off with me and her friends. I can't understand why so I try a couple times to find out (we weren't going out). She keeps telling me she needs time not talking to me, and she NEEDS to move on in life but she still HASN'T. Finally she tells me why she's mad, I apologize stating I thought we didn't agree to anything, but I'm sorry that I upset her so badly. I told her I still care about her.
Anywho, I havn't talked in any form to her since last Sunday. I'm getting a bit annoyed with her. I don't know what she needs time for. I'm thinking I should just text her saying, "hey I'll give you more time alone, I'm done for good". I still like her, and I have other plates going so it's not like I'm obsessing about her but I'm getting sick of waiting around for this broad.