thekcguyme
Don Juan
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- May 24, 2007
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dang it. It's not like we ended on bad terms so I was slowly letting her get her stuff out since she had a lot. Figures.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Should've told her the truth. "Okay pic, but I can't really see them twins. Come over here, I need a closer look."thekcguyme said:About 2 am she texts me this picture of her in her panties and her holding her boobs where u cant really see em. I'm in bed at this point so I dont get the text till morning. I text her back later on telling her "thats a nice pic of you and I'd like to see more of that later on"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Wow is that all you can write about your perfect girl? It's all superficial stuff when you get down to it bruh.thekcguyme said:My idea of my perfect woman
1. Brunette
2. lean body
3. nice butt
4. smart
5. shorter than me
6. fun - lots in common
7. sports fan
8. funny
9. a little wild
10. good in bed