thekcguyme
Don Juan
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dang it. It's not like we ended on bad terms so I was slowly letting her get her stuff out since she had a lot. Figures.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Should've told her the truth. "Okay pic, but I can't really see them twins. Come over here, I need a closer look."thekcguyme said:About 2 am she texts me this picture of her in her panties and her holding her boobs where u cant really see em. I'm in bed at this point so I dont get the text till morning. I text her back later on telling her "thats a nice pic of you and I'd like to see more of that later on"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Wow is that all you can write about your perfect girl? It's all superficial stuff when you get down to it bruh.thekcguyme said:My idea of my perfect woman
1. Brunette
2. lean body
3. nice butt
4. smart
5. shorter than me
6. fun - lots in common
7. sports fan
8. funny
9. a little wild
10. good in bed