Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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thekcguyme

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dang it. It's not like we ended on bad terms so I was slowly letting her get her stuff out since she had a lot. Figures.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ok she just texted me on the phone and all it said was "hello" what the heck? Should I even text her back?
 

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remember what the other poster said about being always available, if anything wait awhile. I'd call, texting is lame, JMO. See what's up.

Who knows, maybe your exes stuff made her think your not being upfront with her, then again it may have nothing to do with anything. You could spend a lifetime trying to figure out why girls behave the way they do. All you can do is not seem too interested.
 

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If anything, her knowing you just got out of a relationship will likely spike your interest levels in her.

Perhaps she senses that your looking to pair-bond very soon out of a relationship, like on the rebound.
 

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Yeah like CFERD said, texting is lame, unless your just quickly checking in with someone that you already know, I'd give her a call and see what's up!

The fact that she sent you a "hello" text means she is interested in you, in some capacity or form. Let us know how it goes.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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librito

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WHAT A JOKE.....you are having problems and issues with your "perfect woman" even before you fusk her. jajaj.....
spin plates and forget this attention hoore.
 

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no offense to the OP... librito is right.

you haven't even ****ked her yet!!! CMON MAN
 

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Ok here is the scoop. Last night about 30 mins before I was going to go to the pool hall she texted me asking me if I was still at home. I didn't respond so she calls min 10 mins after that. I didnt answer the phone. I called her back 15 mins after that. And she told me she wanted to meet with me at the pool hall. I told I'll be there u can find me. She calls me 5 mins after that asking if she could ride with me. I told her yah if you hurry your ass up. I don't really ask many questions. ON the way there she asks me if my ex is really out of the picture and I tell here yes she is way long gone and she is happy with that. She tells me how great I look. I cracked a few jokes and was ****y funny. Once we get there she looks down at her phone and noticed she had a message saying she was suppose to pick up her 5 year old. So she calls up her ex and her kid is crying for her. So she has to go pick him up. Talk about killing my night! I take her back to her car she gives me a good night kiss and tell me she is sorry and will make it up to me. I drive off and a couple hours later she texts me saying, "you looked great tonight and i'm sorry and want to see you soon." About 2 am she texts me this picture of her in her panties and her holding her boobs where u cant really see em. I'm in bed at this point so I dont get the text till morning. I text her back later on telling her "thats a nice pic of you and I'd like to see more of that later on" I asked her what she was doing tonight and she said she had like 3 people wanting to hang with her tonight. In the end she said she was going out with her hot girl friend. Once again pretty much shut out.

I tell you this chick is such a big tease. What do you think? Women are interesting creatures. I'm not very good at playing these games I know. I probably shouldnt have even talked to her today right?
 

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dont pay attention to what she says. only pay attention to what she does when she is with you. if she insists on telling you that you look good and that she likes you but she dont kiss you and fusk you then dump her cause it means that she is only using you for the attention you give her.
still, spin plates and dont concentrate all you attention and effort on this only girl. dont make the mistake of falling in love with this girl cause she is a very imperfect woman for serious relationships.
 

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thekcguyme said:
About 2 am she texts me this picture of her in her panties and her holding her boobs where u cant really see em. I'm in bed at this point so I dont get the text till morning. I text her back later on telling her "thats a nice pic of you and I'd like to see more of that later on"
Should've told her the truth. "Okay pic, but I can't really see them twins. Come over here, I need a closer look."

Why do you think women text men that late at night?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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she was suppose to hang with this other person after 7:30, but it must have been all part of the game because she called me at 7:40 wondering what I was doing. I was out having a good time with someone else which is something im not use to i guess. I met a bartender and ended up at her place doing things yeah well leave it at that. So i'm learning i think now. I shouldnt dweal on just one girl. I didn't know I could get this many chicks this easy.
 
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thekcguyme said:
My idea of my perfect woman
1. Brunette
2. lean body
3. nice butt
4. smart
5. shorter than me
6. fun - lots in common
7. sports fan
8. funny
9. a little wild
10. good in bed
Wow is that all you can write about your perfect girl? It's all superficial stuff when you get down to it bruh.

How about her personality? A nuturer or a gold digger, or a freak of the week? Can she cook? Is she feminine or masculine?

You really should spend more time defining EXACTLY what you want her to be like. It helps in the long run.

No women is perfect and will fill the entire bill but you leave way too many openings here. What if she smokes pot or drinks or does drugs. Is that ok?

See what I am sayin?
 
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