"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My Online Pick Up Guide is published on Amazon!

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Crissco I had no idea you had writing skills. Props putting that out there on amazon. You plan to do a follow up to that one?
 

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vantagepoint said:
Crissco I had no idea you had writing skills. Props putting that out there on amazon. You plan to do a follow up to that one?
I dont have writing skills. I have the knowledge and experience that i tried to put into writing haha..

I edited this version throughout the year. Im going to master real life pick up and do an ebook on that. Or maybe create my own bible. Time will tell.
 

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Thanks bro. I just uploaded the new edited version. Will take around 12 hours to be uploaded. Not sure if you can download the other version or not while this ones being uploaded.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Crissco said:
I dont have writing skills. I have the knowledge and experience that i tried to put into writing haha..

I edited this version throughout the year. Im going to master real life pick up and do an ebook on that. Or maybe create my own bible. Time will tell.

Would you like to eventually get published? There's a lot to write about on on this subject.
 

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How do we get this without a kindle? Is there a PDF format you can email me in exchange of a Paypal payment?
 

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How do we get this without a kindle? Is there a PDF format you can email me in exchange of a Paypal payment?
Dont believe you need a kindle. I was able to open a kindle ebook on my computer.

If you also have your phone connected to amazon you can download it that way, it gives you an option to download to your phone.

But if you would like the PDF emailed to you or having any problems downloading it let me know, ill send it to you.
 

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Cool. You wrote a book about online dating. I'll check it out.

One question though. How long do you reckon before women become savvy to those tactics and they become redundant?
 

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Cool. You wrote a book about online dating. I'll check it out.

One question though. How long do you reckon before women become savvy to those tactics and they become redundant?
To be honest if the chicks online find you good looking enough in your pictures they don't give a sht. They're too busy sorting through the best looking dudes in pictures and seeing who's the most fun etc to BS with and meet.

I personally have accidentaly spammed chicks I'd forgotten I'd spammed a second time.

Or sent a copy and pasta I'd made up that they questioned me if I sent it to other chicks.

For the few I'd double spammed the same copy and paste I'd sent I'd reply without caring if they wrote back (some still did and I got their numbers):

Care to go for a third time? lol Or: Can we make third time a charm? lol

Or ones who called it out right off the bat as copy and paste sent to other chicks:

Yes of course I did! You're only the 1,986,890th person I've sent it too...lol

Some would reply back with: Thanks! lol. At least I'm not the 1,986,891st person..lol

Then I'd go right into asking them about the site and how things are going etc.

You simply have to not care period. If they find you good looking enough in your pics and you don't care and seem cool and or funny. They'll keep talking. I just went for four back and forths. Then: Give me your number and I'll text you mine in a few. (my name) =)

And next message mostly all the time was their number. If I got a few who wanted to keep talking? I'd either delete their reply or simply say: "Times up. I'm not on here much to play email ping pong! You've been put on a permanent time out. lol"

You can't take anyone or anything on there to heart. Take everything with a grain of salt not like you're "hoping" to meet someone off there. Just take it as passing downtime. Nothing more.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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