"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My Online Pick Up Guide is published on Amazon!

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Crissco I had no idea you had writing skills. Props putting that out there on amazon. You plan to do a follow up to that one?
 

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vantagepoint said:
Crissco I had no idea you had writing skills. Props putting that out there on amazon. You plan to do a follow up to that one?
I dont have writing skills. I have the knowledge and experience that i tried to put into writing haha..

I edited this version throughout the year. Im going to master real life pick up and do an ebook on that. Or maybe create my own bible. Time will tell.
 

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Thanks bro. I just uploaded the new edited version. Will take around 12 hours to be uploaded. Not sure if you can download the other version or not while this ones being uploaded.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Crissco said:
I dont have writing skills. I have the knowledge and experience that i tried to put into writing haha..

I edited this version throughout the year. Im going to master real life pick up and do an ebook on that. Or maybe create my own bible. Time will tell.

Would you like to eventually get published? There's a lot to write about on on this subject.
 

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How do we get this without a kindle? Is there a PDF format you can email me in exchange of a Paypal payment?
 

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How do we get this without a kindle? Is there a PDF format you can email me in exchange of a Paypal payment?
Dont believe you need a kindle. I was able to open a kindle ebook on my computer.

If you also have your phone connected to amazon you can download it that way, it gives you an option to download to your phone.

But if you would like the PDF emailed to you or having any problems downloading it let me know, ill send it to you.
 

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Cool. You wrote a book about online dating. I'll check it out.

One question though. How long do you reckon before women become savvy to those tactics and they become redundant?
 

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Cool. You wrote a book about online dating. I'll check it out.

One question though. How long do you reckon before women become savvy to those tactics and they become redundant?
To be honest if the chicks online find you good looking enough in your pictures they don't give a sht. They're too busy sorting through the best looking dudes in pictures and seeing who's the most fun etc to BS with and meet.

I personally have accidentaly spammed chicks I'd forgotten I'd spammed a second time.

Or sent a copy and pasta I'd made up that they questioned me if I sent it to other chicks.

For the few I'd double spammed the same copy and paste I'd sent I'd reply without caring if they wrote back (some still did and I got their numbers):

Care to go for a third time? lol Or: Can we make third time a charm? lol

Or ones who called it out right off the bat as copy and paste sent to other chicks:

Yes of course I did! You're only the 1,986,890th person I've sent it too...lol

Some would reply back with: Thanks! lol. At least I'm not the 1,986,891st person..lol

Then I'd go right into asking them about the site and how things are going etc.

You simply have to not care period. If they find you good looking enough in your pics and you don't care and seem cool and or funny. They'll keep talking. I just went for four back and forths. Then: Give me your number and I'll text you mine in a few. (my name) =)

And next message mostly all the time was their number. If I got a few who wanted to keep talking? I'd either delete their reply or simply say: "Times up. I'm not on here much to play email ping pong! You've been put on a permanent time out. lol"

You can't take anyone or anything on there to heart. Take everything with a grain of salt not like you're "hoping" to meet someone off there. Just take it as passing downtime. Nothing more.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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