"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My Online Pick Up Guide is published on Amazon!

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Vantagepoint34

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Crissco I had no idea you had writing skills. Props putting that out there on amazon. You plan to do a follow up to that one?
 

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vantagepoint said:
Crissco I had no idea you had writing skills. Props putting that out there on amazon. You plan to do a follow up to that one?
I dont have writing skills. I have the knowledge and experience that i tried to put into writing haha..

I edited this version throughout the year. Im going to master real life pick up and do an ebook on that. Or maybe create my own bible. Time will tell.
 

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Thanks bro. I just uploaded the new edited version. Will take around 12 hours to be uploaded. Not sure if you can download the other version or not while this ones being uploaded.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Crissco said:
I dont have writing skills. I have the knowledge and experience that i tried to put into writing haha..

I edited this version throughout the year. Im going to master real life pick up and do an ebook on that. Or maybe create my own bible. Time will tell.

Would you like to eventually get published? There's a lot to write about on on this subject.
 

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How do we get this without a kindle? Is there a PDF format you can email me in exchange of a Paypal payment?
 

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Robyn923b said:
How do we get this without a kindle? Is there a PDF format you can email me in exchange of a Paypal payment?
Dont believe you need a kindle. I was able to open a kindle ebook on my computer.

If you also have your phone connected to amazon you can download it that way, it gives you an option to download to your phone.

But if you would like the PDF emailed to you or having any problems downloading it let me know, ill send it to you.
 

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Cool. You wrote a book about online dating. I'll check it out.

One question though. How long do you reckon before women become savvy to those tactics and they become redundant?
 

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Cool. You wrote a book about online dating. I'll check it out.

One question though. How long do you reckon before women become savvy to those tactics and they become redundant?
To be honest if the chicks online find you good looking enough in your pictures they don't give a sht. They're too busy sorting through the best looking dudes in pictures and seeing who's the most fun etc to BS with and meet.

I personally have accidentaly spammed chicks I'd forgotten I'd spammed a second time.

Or sent a copy and pasta I'd made up that they questioned me if I sent it to other chicks.

For the few I'd double spammed the same copy and paste I'd sent I'd reply without caring if they wrote back (some still did and I got their numbers):

Care to go for a third time? lol Or: Can we make third time a charm? lol

Or ones who called it out right off the bat as copy and paste sent to other chicks:

Yes of course I did! You're only the 1,986,890th person I've sent it too...lol

Some would reply back with: Thanks! lol. At least I'm not the 1,986,891st person..lol

Then I'd go right into asking them about the site and how things are going etc.

You simply have to not care period. If they find you good looking enough in your pics and you don't care and seem cool and or funny. They'll keep talking. I just went for four back and forths. Then: Give me your number and I'll text you mine in a few. (my name) =)

And next message mostly all the time was their number. If I got a few who wanted to keep talking? I'd either delete their reply or simply say: "Times up. I'm not on here much to play email ping pong! You've been put on a permanent time out. lol"

You can't take anyone or anything on there to heart. Take everything with a grain of salt not like you're "hoping" to meet someone off there. Just take it as passing downtime. Nothing more.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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