"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MascaraSnake

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Since most of my game usually happens when I'm in school or frequenting public areas, I didn't want to try anything other than a free site. Just a question, though...can you all see a reason why I might not be contacted first?

I've had about three successful dates on here (one of them ended in sex the first night) but I always had to do the initial contact myself. Usually after that went well, everything fell into place, but I'm going on there less and less because I always have to send the first message.

Oh yeah, the link...of course. http://www.okcupid.com/profile/JazzGeek
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

COD

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UMMM YOUR ccomplaing that you posted a profile and girls have contact you first and u got laid.

Sheesh dude are you really that lazy!

who cares who contacts who first............like do U ever say she was amazing but I had to say hi to her first...


unbelievable
 

MascaraSnake

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Not really, it's just that the girls I talk to complain about being hit on by creeps ALL THE TIME. As in at least once or twice a day. I never get messaged to the point where it seems that nobody cares (but then I do OK, so it doesn't matter much).

I dunno...there's probably more guys than girls on there.
 

ketostix

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I checked OKcupid out a little bit and haven't had much success there, it seems like the girls are all busy filling out surveys or something. I haven't really put any time in my profile though. I think your profile is all right but I think you need better pics if you want to get more success or get girls to contact you first.
 
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