"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MascaraSnake

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Since most of my game usually happens when I'm in school or frequenting public areas, I didn't want to try anything other than a free site. Just a question, though...can you all see a reason why I might not be contacted first?

I've had about three successful dates on here (one of them ended in sex the first night) but I always had to do the initial contact myself. Usually after that went well, everything fell into place, but I'm going on there less and less because I always have to send the first message.

Oh yeah, the link...of course. http://www.okcupid.com/profile/JazzGeek
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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COD

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UMMM YOUR ccomplaing that you posted a profile and girls have contact you first and u got laid.

Sheesh dude are you really that lazy!

who cares who contacts who first............like do U ever say she was amazing but I had to say hi to her first...


unbelievable
 
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MascaraSnake

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Not really, it's just that the girls I talk to complain about being hit on by creeps ALL THE TIME. As in at least once or twice a day. I never get messaged to the point where it seems that nobody cares (but then I do OK, so it doesn't matter much).

I dunno...there's probably more guys than girls on there.
 
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I checked OKcupid out a little bit and haven't had much success there, it seems like the girls are all busy filling out surveys or something. I haven't really put any time in my profile though. I think your profile is all right but I think you need better pics if you want to get more success or get girls to contact you first.
 
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