"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MascaraSnake

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Since most of my game usually happens when I'm in school or frequenting public areas, I didn't want to try anything other than a free site. Just a question, though...can you all see a reason why I might not be contacted first?

I've had about three successful dates on here (one of them ended in sex the first night) but I always had to do the initial contact myself. Usually after that went well, everything fell into place, but I'm going on there less and less because I always have to send the first message.

Oh yeah, the link...of course. http://www.okcupid.com/profile/JazzGeek
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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COD

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UMMM YOUR ccomplaing that you posted a profile and girls have contact you first and u got laid.

Sheesh dude are you really that lazy!

who cares who contacts who first............like do U ever say she was amazing but I had to say hi to her first...


unbelievable
 

MascaraSnake

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Not really, it's just that the girls I talk to complain about being hit on by creeps ALL THE TIME. As in at least once or twice a day. I never get messaged to the point where it seems that nobody cares (but then I do OK, so it doesn't matter much).

I dunno...there's probably more guys than girls on there.
 

ketostix

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I checked OKcupid out a little bit and haven't had much success there, it seems like the girls are all busy filling out surveys or something. I haven't really put any time in my profile though. I think your profile is all right but I think you need better pics if you want to get more success or get girls to contact you first.
 
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