"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm going to make a long story short. Basically I was driving got to a stop sign over by a supermarket. Who do I see? you guessed it walking with who I think was her ex boyfriend. She looks me dead in the eyes, like oh shyt turns around and grabs his hand. Keep in mind I'm in my car and this is literally 2ft away lol. This is after weeks of dangling me around. Talk about a stab to the heart . Live and learn i guess. Guys stay emotionally detached at all times!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'll share my philosophy.

Don't love A woman. LOVE ALL women. Hate individual women. If A woman doesn't appreciate your warmth give it freely to someone else.

I have to be very careful about certain types of women so that I don't fall for them. I might have a crush right now but it is having no effect on me at all because I have not forgotten to love all women and hate individual ones.
 
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Originally posted by Mr Spitfire
I'll share my philosophy.

Don't love A woman. LOVE ALL women. Hate individual women. If A woman doesn't appreciate your warmth give it freely to someone else.

I have to be very careful about certain types of women so that I don't fall for them. I might have a crush right now but it is having no effect on me at all because I have not forgotten to love all women and hate individual ones.
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The thing about love or the feeling of attraction isn't much of a choice. The moment you feel attraction to a girl that is trouble you have to avoid her at all cost or else it might grow into oneitis.
 
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If you are talking about the girl I might have a crush on I agree. That has been my strategy for a long time now. I have very little contact with her despite our proximity. Im telling you, there is fireworks and lightning when we look at eachother and its seems pretty mutual. So I totally avoid her but that doesnt mean I can't take her when she comes my way.

I can totally kill her power by fvcking her. The thing is I think she has liked me for a while. She gets nervous, flushy, flustered smiling like she is thrilled around me, and jealous of other girls. But I avoid her and don't look at her unless it would be rude not to.

I have actually taken steps to back her off also even though I think she is genuine. I don't need her. She is probably mine for the taking but I have to play by my rules.

I have a lot of game right now. No need to endanger that with a foolish oneitis.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Remulak
Guys stay emotionally detached at all times!!
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After getting hurt in the past (once is enough) I say NO to any emotional attachment to girls I barely know (less than 6 months).
 
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