"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My 'nice guy' problem

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donkdidonk2

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To cut a long story short: I really fancy this woman at work. She really fancies someone else but like sme because I am 'nice'. She would never say the things about me as she says about him. I ****ing hate him. H ekeeps giving me bad looks and I want to pop the c**t one.

I digress. This woman speculated on whether I was gay when I first started. Apparently it was because I was 'nice' and well dressed and I look very boyish.

How can I start coming across as sexy and masculine without being a tosser?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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spider_007

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Start reading the DJ Bible

And quit messing with chicks at work, if it goes bad (and it always does) you still have to work with them. Get them to introduce you to their friends
 
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2nd that - don't mess with a chick at work.

Read the DJ bible.
 
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flyinshark

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Talk to her as if u were talking to one of your male friends. For example, if u feel like swearing, swear..just dont hold back or change your vocabulary when u are talking to her. But this is just the tip of the iceberg..more in the bible, as others have indicated.
 
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