"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My 'nice guy' problem

donkdidonk2

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To cut a long story short: I really fancy this woman at work. She really fancies someone else but like sme because I am 'nice'. She would never say the things about me as she says about him. I ****ing hate him. H ekeeps giving me bad looks and I want to pop the c**t one.

I digress. This woman speculated on whether I was gay when I first started. Apparently it was because I was 'nice' and well dressed and I look very boyish.

How can I start coming across as sexy and masculine without being a tosser?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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spider_007

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Start reading the DJ Bible

And quit messing with chicks at work, if it goes bad (and it always does) you still have to work with them. Get them to introduce you to their friends
 

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2nd that - don't mess with a chick at work.

Read the DJ bible.
 

flyinshark

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Talk to her as if u were talking to one of your male friends. For example, if u feel like swearing, swear..just dont hold back or change your vocabulary when u are talking to her. But this is just the tip of the iceberg..more in the bible, as others have indicated.
 
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