"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My 'nice guy' problem

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donkdidonk2

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To cut a long story short: I really fancy this woman at work. She really fancies someone else but like sme because I am 'nice'. She would never say the things about me as she says about him. I ****ing hate him. H ekeeps giving me bad looks and I want to pop the c**t one.

I digress. This woman speculated on whether I was gay when I first started. Apparently it was because I was 'nice' and well dressed and I look very boyish.

How can I start coming across as sexy and masculine without being a tosser?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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spider_007

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Start reading the DJ Bible

And quit messing with chicks at work, if it goes bad (and it always does) you still have to work with them. Get them to introduce you to their friends
 
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2nd that - don't mess with a chick at work.

Read the DJ bible.
 
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flyinshark

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Talk to her as if u were talking to one of your male friends. For example, if u feel like swearing, swear..just dont hold back or change your vocabulary when u are talking to her. But this is just the tip of the iceberg..more in the bible, as others have indicated.
 
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