"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My 'nice guy' problem

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donkdidonk2

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To cut a long story short: I really fancy this woman at work. She really fancies someone else but like sme because I am 'nice'. She would never say the things about me as she says about him. I ****ing hate him. H ekeeps giving me bad looks and I want to pop the c**t one.

I digress. This woman speculated on whether I was gay when I first started. Apparently it was because I was 'nice' and well dressed and I look very boyish.

How can I start coming across as sexy and masculine without being a tosser?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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spider_007

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Start reading the DJ Bible

And quit messing with chicks at work, if it goes bad (and it always does) you still have to work with them. Get them to introduce you to their friends
 
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2nd that - don't mess with a chick at work.

Read the DJ bible.
 
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flyinshark

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Talk to her as if u were talking to one of your male friends. For example, if u feel like swearing, swear..just dont hold back or change your vocabulary when u are talking to her. But this is just the tip of the iceberg..more in the bible, as others have indicated.
 
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