Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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My newest umm....situation.

toddC

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Okay, as you guys know, I usually have more of problems than anything else however this weekend is getting me quite exited. Heres why:

Its homecoming weekend! I know of 4 girls that 100% I can get with. I also know of a party that I'll be attending 100% on Saturday night and I know that atleast 3/4 of these girls will be there.

Now heres my situation here...I really want to get with 2 of the girls but I don't know if getting with both of them in the same night would do anything but ruin further chances of a LTR with either one of them. What do you guys think I should do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheNewGuy

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Originally posted by toddC
Okay, as you guys know, I usually have more of problems than anything else however this weekend is getting me quite exited. Heres why:

Its homecoming weekend! I know of 4 girls that 100% I can get with. I also know of a party that I'll be attending 100% on Saturday night and I know that atleast 3/4 of these girls will be there.

Now heres my situation here...I really want to get with 2 of the girls but I don't know if getting with both of them in the same night would do anything but ruin further chances of a LTR with either one of them. What do you guys think I should do?
If you want a LTR, don't. If you want ass, go for it.
 

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I say go for it.

An LTR won't work if you base it on lies. By laying them both in the same night, they will know exactly who you are. So there won't be a lot of 'drama' in the future.
 

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F*ck em all. You are your own priority. They are not your priority. Please yourself firstly.

You might find out one of em has really stinky bad breath in the process, easily eliminating her. Seriously dude, try to get some ass, and then focus on a LTR. It's not a bad way to build on one.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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alright, thanks a lot guys. I'll please myself first and see where it takes me :)
 
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